home grown babies

Just a Mother learning to be a Lover

2012-01-30T00:25:00.000-08:00

Micah Hudson - a loved one!

I love watching my children grown and develop, I love watching them 'perform'; dance, sing, be silly in front of Dave and I. I love watching their fearless efforts to entertain us, their bursting, confident rendition of a song they've heard or just their freedom to jump on our lap, throw their arms around us at any given time.

My children know they are loved, we're not perfect parents, we give apologies for our failings daily but our children know they are loved. I'm often distracted, my mind is on other things. At times I shout or act out of a pressured or stressed situation but my children know they are loved.

My children are secure, they are free, they are confident - because they know they are loved.

"If its true that the value of something is measured by what someone will pay for it, then we need to rethink our worth." (Bill Johnson)

Mothers, YOU are loved; you were perfectly planned out and formed together (Psalm 139), you have a destiny, a purpose and God has a plan for your life (Jer 29:11). You are cared for (1 Peter 5:7), prayed for (Rom 8:34) and sung over daily (Zeph 3:17); Your Father even knows how many hairs are on your head (Luke 12:7). You're the apple of His eye (Psalm 17:8), you're His greatest work (Eph 2:10).

So why are we downcast?
Why do we act so insecure and locked up?
Why do we question ourselves?
Why do we doubt our worth and significance?

Mother, do you know you're loved?

It's time to learn to be loved, it's time to surrender to God's overwhelming, all consuming, consistent, stable, strong, unconditional love for YOU.

It's time to lift up your head
It's time to walk in freedom and security
It's time to know WHO you are in His love
It's time to run with purpose, direction, liberty and peace because of your Fathers love

"Lord, thank you for lavishing your love upon me, thank you that I am complete in you and there is no lack, thank you that I am strong, free and full of joy when I walk in the light of your love. Thank you that you are all I need and whatever challenges or tests may come my way I can run into your arms and be held in your love. Lord help me today walk in a revelation of your love, help me be secure and act out of that love and security. Help me be your loved one and inspire my family and those around me to live in the same way - Amen"

Praying it with you today!

Knowing we are loved by God; It's not just a 'good day' it's our standard.

Be abundantly blessed in all you do today.
Leah

Protection and Healing

2012-01-27T10:03:00.000-08:00

Our praying daughter - Nyah

Just popping on quietly as I'm preparing dinner for guests tonight, beef 'n' ale stew bubbling away! We've had a lovely Friday afternoon with some of the precious ladies from our church in our home; we shared coffee, cake and conversation; wonderful times!

Today I'm thankful; I'm thankful for our God, Jehovah Nissi; our banner of love and protection. Yesterday my parents were involved in a serious car accident in rush hour traffic near their home in Yorkshire. They were hit by a large lorry and were sent spinning across the three lanes of the motorway. The car stopped as it hit the central reservation and my parents were totally unharmed! As they got out of the car after their horrific ordeal a guy from their church happened to be on that road that day which is unusual for him and was able to stop and help them. The emergency services were soon at the scene and were amazing at reassuring my parents and getting them off the road and back home.

They are shaken up, we've all been affected emotionally but they are well and praising Jesus for |His angelic protection and incredible hand of love.

Your love never fails, never gives up, never runs out on me

This morning I woke up with a terrible headache, I thought I could shake it off with a good coffee and a some pain relief but it wasn't budging, I was so sick - I just needed to crawl back into bed with an ice pack on my head but I had a house to pull together, children to feed, a baby to nurse and most importantly a fabulous Pistachio and Orange cake to make! I did crawl back into bed but my precious Nyah offered to pray for me, she laid her 9 year old hands on my head, asked Jesus to heal me, take away my pain and help me get on with my day. She took Sienna-Raine for a while and I rested for a short time, I must have napped but woke up suddenly and felt absolutely fine, no headache and no sickness!! I was well, I was healed and ready to take on the day! Hallelujah!

Jesus you're all I need

Thankful...again!

Have a wonderful weekend,

Blessings
Leah

I love days like these - Nature Study

2012-01-26T13:10:00.000-08:00

A ride on Mama's back whilst carrying her own stick - Sienna gets a great view of God's creation

“Here is a duty that lies upon us all; for we all enter on the inheritance of the heavens and the earth, the flowers of the field and the birds of the air. These are things to which we have right, no one can take them from us; but, until we get as much as a nodding and naming acquaintance with the things of Nature, they are a cause rather of irritation and depression than of joy” (Vol. 4, Book 2, p. 97).

“From the flower in the crannied wall to the glorious firmament on high, all the things of Nature proclaim without ceasing, ‘Great and marvellous are thy works, Lord God Almighty’ ”

(Vol. 4, Book 2, p. 100).


Bird Watching

“A love of Nature, implanted so early that it will seem to them hereafter to have been born in them, will enrich their lives with pure interests, absorbing pursuits, health, and good humour” (Vol. 1, p. 71).

“Consider, too, what an unequalled mental training the child-naturalist is getting for any study or calling under the sun — the powers of attention, of discrimination, of patient pursuit, growing with his growth, what will they not fit him for?” (Vol. 1, p. 61).

Nature study cultivates a love of investigation

A beautiful winter scene at our local nature reserve

I love the light on the water

“Let him know, with friendly intimacy, the out-of-door objects that come in his way — the redstart, the rosechaffer, the ways of the caddis-worm, forest trees, field flowers — all natural objects, common and curious, near his home. No other knowledge is so delightful as this common acquaintance with natural objects” (Vol. 2, p. 77).

Hope you've had a wonderful day too!

Many blessings

Leah

Signs of Spring in the Winter

2012-01-25T00:19:00.000-08:00

I didn't quite make my usual early wake up call this morning; after an eventful (very) late night with my 3-year-old son (tummy ache) and my 11 month old daughter (was woken up by son with tummy ache and wanted to party!), it was probably around 3am before I crawled into bed with Micah snuggled up next to me to be then ripped back out of my bed an hour later to our little Sienna-Raine who fancied a mama snack!

But I'm here (amazing grace how sweet the sound), I'm ready for the day, the children are still asleep and the morning sun is yet to rear her head.

As I was stood sleepily in my kitchen waiting for the kettle to boil I could hear a bird chirping away happily outside, so instead of quietly putting on some worship music, which is my usual morning ritual, I carefully opened our kitchen window to hear that forgotten sound of spring; I made a pot of tea, I ironed my hardworking husbands work clothes, I smiled.

My heart is yearning for spring.

A few days ago Dave and I were stood clearing away things in our back yard after the building work had been completed, he scanned our happy homestead and asked "are you going to dig up those dead trees and throw them away"! Ok so he's not quite Alan Titchmash but I thought his fingers might have a slight tinge of green on them, but evidently not so! I laughed and shrieked at the same time declaring (rather dramatically and in defence of the trees):

"Dave, they're not dead, they're sleeping, God does some of His best, unseen work in the winter, the trees are preparing for new growth, they might look brown and shrivelled but we can't give up on them now!"

I walked over to my willow tree and pointed out the tiny green buds just peeping out enough to convince us not to rip him up from the ground and I smiled.

My heart is yearning for spring

After the children and I had tidied up after our day yesterday I gazed up at the clock and it read 4 o'clock, I looked out of the window and it was still light - I yelled "kids, it's 4 o'clock and it's still light", they smiled.

My heart is yearning for spring

Are you feeling dry, unnoticed, insignificant and 'done'?

It's time precious mother, daughter of God, to look for signs of spring in your life! God is ALWAYS at work; He does some of His finest, unseen work in the dark of winter - He's preparing you for growth, He's preparing you for a season of fruitfulness, a time to be displayed for His glory, a time to flourish in His garden.

Search for the 'buds', listen out for the bird song - spring is in the air!

"Yes, I am the vine, you are the branches. Those who remain in me, and I in them will produce much fruit. For apart from me you can do nothing."
John 15:5

Remain in Him and look for signs of Spring

Blessings

Leah

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Book list 2012

2012-01-24T03:58:00.000-08:00

This months book of choice

My daily 5.30am wake up call is softened by the fact I get to read a chapter of 'Kisses from Katie'; I jump (ahem) out of bed, grab my Kindle, get onto my exercise bike and cycle as fast as I can for the duration of one chapter (about 15 minutes). I don't often get another chance in the day to read for 'pleasure' so I've decided to multitask on this and I actually look forward to it!

I'm about half way through this book and have devoured every electronic inked page (!), her story of courage, faith and transformation in Uganda at such a young age is incredible, her reflections and revelation bring challenge to my heart every day. What started out as a 'mission' trip quickly turned into a journey of motherhood as she courageously adopts 14 little girls and transforms their lives, who in turn God uses to transform hers.

This book was on the top of my (still in progress) book list for 2012. By the end of January I would like a concise list of 10 books (+2 for standby in case I get through them) that I'd like to complete and review on my blog.

I generally read Christian books; books that will challenge me in my faith, encourage and guide me in my marriage and quest of motherhood, books about leadership, books on home schooling; especially around a Charlotte Mason pedagogy...very rarely do I read fiction!

So I'm open to suggestions - what do you think I should delve into this year? I'm open to a challenge, throw a bit of fiction in there, try me!

I'm aiming to form my final list of 12 (a realistic number for this busy mother of 4!) over the weekend, throw some titles at me; leave a comment or tweet me (hgbabies) and lets see which ones make it!

Looking forward to your suggestions,

Many blessings
Leah

Lessons from Lego

2012-01-23T06:00:00.000-08:00

I have two boys; so generally Lego or some kind of building forms part of our day and part of our bonding.

Today, in the cabin, Micah built a perfectly proud structure made of multi-coloured duplo, he added a few wooden bricks for his usual 3 year old mixed media effect and with a tug of my jeans interrupted my listening to Joel's reading to show and tell. As I was doing my Oscar award winning 'oohs' and 'ahhh's at my sons creation our sweet little cruiser Sienna-Raine saw her goal and crawled speedily across the cabin floor, with one (or two) foul swoops she had taken down the Micah masterpiece!

Micah collapsed into a sobbing floor piece and declared he could not build it again! We set up a higher, Sienna-proof table for him, we picked up his bricks, we consoled him but he was adamant that he 'could not' build it again!

We cuddled and listened to Joel finish the chapter of his book.
I whispered to Micah that he COULD build it again if I helped him, I told him that he was a super hero and super hero's always try again...

...he began to build.

This time it was bigger and better - and stronger!

Often in our plight of motherhood we feel discouraged and dragged down.
Proverbs tells us that a wise woman builds her home and a foolish woman tears it apart with her own hands. But doesn't it often feel like others are tearing it down for us with judgement and discouragement? We're desperately trying to build, but is it in vain?

We build, we're pretty proud of our accomplishments but with one swoop of discouragement we're floored again to that sobbing mess.

You declare 'I CAN'T DO THIS ANY MORE'!

Unless the LORD builds a house, the work of the builders is wasted. (Psalm 127:1)

Take it to Jesus

We sit on our Fathers lap, He whispers words of love and encouragement in our ear, in our heart. He tells us we CAN do it with His help; we can build, we can sow, we can speak, we can walk, we can dream.

He lays a new foundation, a solid place to build - on HIM.

And slowly, with your hand in His you start to build again - but this time it is better, bigger and stronger.

This home belongs to Him.

Be encouraged today Mothers - you CAN build again.

Many blessings

Leah

Come to me

2012-01-21T23:19:00.000-08:00

Real productivity!

2012-01-21T11:47:00.000-08:00

Me with hubby and youngest daughter - some of my finest 'work'!

Isn't ticking things off your 'to do' list the best feeling in the world? Feeling productive is a big deal to me; I wouldn't say I'm a 'control freak' but I generally have a 'plan', know what I want to achieve in a day/week/month or even year but of course, over 9 years of being a parent I've come to terms with the fact that with one rough night, a sick baby, a broken boiler, a decorating project or an emotional melt down from your 3 year old can throw you off for hours or even days (or even weeks)!

I often flop into bed at the end of 'one of those days' and declare to my husband that I haven't achieved much that day (which usually means the dishes are piled up and the laundry didn't get folded!); I'm thankful that he's quick to respond and correct me with a reminder of what I've actually done: helped and supported him by getting his clothes ironed and ready for work, woke him up a kiss and hot cup of tea, fed my family and made sure they were dressed, groomed, loved, educated and nurtured all day. He reminds me that if all I did today was love my children well then I've achieved a lot, I've sown into eternity and worked on the most important thing; their hearts!

So as much as this needs to get done:

Laundry

Clean stairs

Plan for meeting tomorrow

Plan next weeks school

Phone Claire

De-clutter living room top drawer

Write ground breaking, history making blog post (smile)

Maybe I should prioritise this:

~~Peace~~

~~Love~~

~~Joy~~

~~Laughter~~

~~Cuddles~~

~~Kisses~~

~~Conversation~~

~~Memories~~

Now that's productive day Mothers!

Hope you're having a blessed weekend,

Leah

Picture this - images from our week!

2012-01-20T00:32:00.000-08:00

Nyah learning how to 'fold' not 'stir' - making fairy cake for tea!

Pencil and plasticine by Micah

Sleeping in the cabin

Sharing an activity book

Sibling cuddles

Sketching at our local art gallery

"I wonder where he's going?"

Joel sketching

Dave having a laugh (lovingly) at my first attempt at a video blog post!

Yogurt cake with mascarpone icing - yum!

Hello Mornings! Mama's soul time...shhhh, do not disturb!

Baby-led weaning with a yogurt!!

Maths and manipulative's


Sienna-Raine wondering what Mummy is doing?!

Hope you've had a great week too!

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Many blessings from our home to yours

Leah

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Baby Signing for beginners - Video tutorial

2012-01-19T01:22:00.000-08:00

Cultivating the hearts of our children

2012-01-18T01:12:00.000-08:00

I've been a parent for 9 years, I've been a mother for 9 years
We've had a vision for parenthood for 5 years, I've loved motherhood for 5 years

There's a big difference!

Our family has been on a great adventure of 'new things', God has turned on the flood lights in so many areas of our life which we continue to learn about and live out everyday.

My husband and I have been walking with Jesus since our childhood, we love the Word of God and seek to listen to the Holy Spirit and glorify God through our lives everyday, flaws and all! 'Impressing' this upon our children was a different thing.

We've learnt that being deliberate in our devotions with our children is important and life giving. Deut 6:7 reminds us to "...Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up."

For the past 3 or 4 years we've been committed to sharing daily with our children the Word of God, we do this round the breakfast table; during the day, while we're in the car, when we're cooking together, playing together, crying together; and as much as possible we gather round the Word after dinner - all the children; whether they're wiggling, breast feeding, snuggling or giggling we sit together with Daddy to hear and discuss amazing truths.

But is this enough?

This week we read together the parable of the farmer scattering the seed, let me remind you of it:

A farmer went out to plant some seed. As he scattered it across his field, some of the seed fell on a footpath, and the birds came and ate it. Other seed fell on shallow soil with underlying rock. The seed sprouted quickly because the soil was shallow. But the plant soon wilted under the hot sun, and since it didn’t have deep roots, it died. Other seed fell among thorns that grew up and choked out the tender plants so they produced no grain. Still other seeds fell on fertile soil, and they sprouted, grew, and produced a crop that was thirty, sixty, and even a hundred times as much as had been planted!” Then he said, “Anyone with ears to hear should listen and understand.” (Mark 4: 3-9 NLT)

As we studied and discussed this wonderful parable I was again challenged on the issue of the hearts of my children - their ears were regularly hearing the scriptures, faith comes by hearing so surely their faith was growing? But what kind of soil was it falling on?

In some households reading the bible has become part of their daily routine, but it has become more of a 'duty'; another text book in their home school curriculum (albeit a great one!), dare I say even a legalistic ritual, one that that falls on hard ground and is quickly eaten up by the 'pull' and desires of the world. For others it has fallen on shallow hearts; they have seen quick 'fruit' and 'results' but when the heat is on the shoots whither and die. Others are bringing the Word to their children where they are maybe dealing with unseen 'thorns'; the seed is strangled and crushed before it can start to thrive.

What kind of soil are you sowing into Mothers?

Are we watching, 'tending', challenging and watering the hearts of children through our relationship with them? Are we still cuddling lots as they get older, are we chatting and asking questions despite the busyness of life, are we praying with them, listening to them, spending time with them, whilst lovingly 'nipping' attitudes and habits in the bud as we see them in these precious people God has entrusted to us?

Are we daily winning the hearts of our children so we can point them to Jesus?

This is my prayer today:

Lord, please give me wisdom to 'build' my home today; help me be attentive to the hearts of my children. Please help me as a mother cultivate deep, fertile soil in my children so that the Word they hear can go deep, produce life long roots and produce fruit that multiplies. Father help me see the thorns today, help me discern the hardness and help me see where a heart may be shallow, for your glory" Amen

In His grace and for His glory

Leah

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Easy Bird Feeders

2012-01-17T05:27:00.000-08:00

Our recent nature study has been concentrating on winter birds, and mostly winter birds in our garden.

Charlotte Mason encourages children to get to know what is living and growing in their back yard just as much as local parks and walkways, so as much as possible I'm trying to make our little back yard a point of interest and learning for my children; some what of a challenge after building work and during the winter but I'm excited about our planned spring planting and summer blooming!

As our new school cabin is situated at the bottom of our yard we've come to realise that it's a bit like our own bird hide, where as birds would normally fly away when kids are around, because we're behind wood and large windows they don't seem to care. Yesterday we enjoyed watching starlings devouring our home made bird feeders right in front of our faces, my little Micah (3) was open mouthed and wide eyed the whole time as we whispered in wonderment and tip toed around our wooden hide away!

Today we're sharing our simple and easy bird feeder idea so you could have a go and see what appears in your back yard.

What you'll need:

2 largish apples

Half a packet of Lard

Half a cup of Bird seed

Half a cup of Oats

String

Step 1 - Cut the apples in half and carefully with a sharp knife (best for Mama to do this!) carve out the middle of the apple halves. With a sharp point (we used a fondue fork) make a hole through the middle of the apple and thread through your string/wool, tie a knot to hold it in place. Set them to one side.

Step 2 - melt the lard in a pan, when completely melted take off the heat and add in chopped up apple bits from centre of apples, seeds and oats - stir until it's all mixed together well.

Step 3 - fill the apple halves with the mixture and press down firmly, make sure you hold the string up whilst you do this so you can hang it properly when the mixture is set.

Step 4 - Put the apple halves in a container and place in fridge (or freezer if you want quicker results) for the mixture to set and turn hard. The lard will turn white and the mixture will be firm.

Step 5 - find places around your yard/garden to hang your lovely apple bird feeders and watch the local birds devour them!

So far we've seen starlings munching on them and sparrows nibbling them!

Enjoy - and let me know if you give them a go!

Happy learning and many blessings from our home to yours

Leah

The Successful Mother

2012-01-16T02:03:00.000-08:00

Motherhood can be so complex at times, so many tasks to juggle, so many needs to be met, so many lives to enrich and so much love to give.I often start a Monday morning with my heart overflowing with dreams, my mind buzzing with inspiring ideas and my day book bursting with 'to do's'.

I pray for wisdom
I pray for peace

Today I prayed for success

SUC.CESS - The accomplishment of an aim or purpose.

Success; seems like such a cooperate word, a word used by motivational speakers and business gurus, but it's a word for you and me, it's a word for mothers, and it's a God word.

"Commit your actions to the LORD, and your plans will succeed." (Prov 16:3)

So today precious ladies; in your coming and going, in your teaching and nurturing, in your cooking and cleaning, in your loving and letting, in your forgiving and forgetting, in your deepest dreams and your unheard hopes - give it to God; commit, give, hand it over and watch what your loving Father does.

Mothers; dare we pray for success today?

Not just to bless but to pray for success; in all we do, let us glorify God, and to enjoy him for ever!

Leah

Captivate Us

2012-01-14T23:30:00.001-08:00

Solo Deo Gloria

Mothers that change the world!

2012-01-14T00:46:00.000-08:00

Mary Sumner - Founder of the Mothers Union

Just popping by before we start our Saturday adventures to share a bit of reading I've been doing this morning. Whilst at a friends house for dinner last night she excitedly pushed her Ipad in front of my face and said you HAVE to read this. She had been reading about the history of the Mothers Union, the amazing founder and pioneer, wife and mother to three, Mary Sumner. Mary's heart and passion began to changed a nations thinking, brought women to their knees in prayer and led an revolution of change in marriages and parenting across the world.

You can read about her here, these are two of my favourite quotes that have touched my heart and stirred my faith this morning:

"If women united in prayer and committed themselves to a Christian life the nation could be transformed."

"She believed that women from every class needed to understand that motherhood was a profession and be equipped to perform it. Motherhood involved more than providing for the physical needs of children. The primary responsibility of mothers was to raise their children in the love of God. Mothers could only do this, she believed, if their lives were firmly rooted in prayer. "

Are there stories of women in history that stir an excite your heart? I'd love to hear about them!

Have a blessed Saturday!

Leah

Turning Interruptions into Opportunities

2012-01-12T23:56:00.000-08:00

This week I've hooked up with Inspired to Action's 'Hello Mornings' challenge, I missed the registration to join a group but hoping to hop on as soon as there is an opening.

I am definitely a morning person but am discovering about myself that this may be a season 'thang' (the winter wake up is hard)!

New year natually brought that well needed 'kick' to get back into my early morning routine, working out, personal devotions and planning time. I spotted that Kat has a free ebook so I signed up, downloaded it and sat quietly one evening at the beginning of the week to devour it! The book echo's my heart and my desire to be deliberate and intentional about my time; reading and implementing the ideas have a been a breathe of fresh air this week!

I often find, In the quiet of the day, while the sun is rising and the birds are singing their first song my dreams are breathed upon and inspiration comes alive - I treasure these moments with My Father, with my thoughts and with my plans.

It's important to dream

A victory week!

So, this week I've consistently got up at 5.30am, worked out on my bike and have done a bit of strengthening work, showered and dressed, prayed, read the Bible and planned my day...ALL before 7.30am!! My 3 year old Micah joined me for two of the mornings but sat quietly on the sofa watching a couple of his favourite programmes (which Kat recommends) whilst I read and planned. I've still got to 'tweak' my routine but this week I've shaken off the Christmas 'sluggishness', I've felt full of energy and ALIVE!

A beautiful interruption

Today was different - I fed my 11 month old Sienna-Raine in bed beside me, she usually roles over, snuggles with Daddy and falls back into a deep sleep. Today she sat up, said "Daddy" and proceeded to look for him under the covers (cute) and was wide awake; so I scooped her up and after a quick nappy change and a even quicker change for Mama I decided to make the most of this 'interruption' and head out the door to the supermarket!

With a yoghurt cake and home made bird feeders on the plans for the day I had a few things to pick up.

The air was cold, I scraped the ice off the car and Sienna-Raine and I ventured out into the early morning world - we blasted out one of my favourite morning anthem's and prayed all the way!

Sienna-Raine brought a smile to all the morning shoppers, we chatted to the old ladies as they adoringly soaked in her baby smile, we found bargains, we found blessings and we beat the clock!

We returned home to a handsome hubby ready for work, older children still snoozing and the bright day ahead of us!

As Sienna-Raine munched on fresh fruit and I brewed a pot of Earl grey tea I thought of Proverbs 19:21
"You can make many plans, but the LORD's purpose will prevail"; with the right attitude and a peaceful heart we can turn these 'interruptions' into beautiful opportunities.

Right, off I go - the cake is calling and the birds are hungry! Thanks for popping by this week; I'll be around quietly over the weekend but join me next week for our great bird feeder recipe, a tutorial on baby signing for beginners and few creative ideas for narration work with your Charlotte Mason little learners!

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Many blessing from our home to yours

Leah

Photo: Sienna-Raine & Nyah, my precious daughters

The Miracle of Motherhood - Katie's testimony

2012-01-12T00:00:00.000-08:00

*This is a re-post of my friends testimony from 2009, I love her story and Katie is now, as we speak, awaiting the imminent arrival of her 3rd baby! Be encouraged - God is faithful and kind and He LOVES to bless us!

This is a beautiful picture of our friends John, Katie and their son Jonah - today's post is their testimony of God's healing and faithfulness with regards to their hearts desire to have children

"I met john in 2003 and in 2005 we got married, like most couples we talked about the idea of children and with me being slightly older than John we thought sooner rather than later would be best!

After a year or so nothing seemed to be happening so I went to see my doctor, I knew deep down I would maybe have trouble becoming pregnant due to having polycystic ovaries which I'd be diagnosed with in my late teens. My doctor referred us both for tests at the hospital and we were told the devastating news that John also had medical problems and we had less than 1% chance of ever conceiving a child naturally, it was a big shock!

They offered us a chance of taking a fertility drug which would help but then after more tests we were given another blow that it wouldn’t be right for us and would only heighten the chance of an ectopic pregnancy which was a risk the doctor wouldn’t take. This seemed to hit me the hardest; I was told IVF was our only chance and were put on a waiting list which at that point was 12-18 months long!

I was devastated, it was a very hard time, both as a couple and also for me as a women who has two sisters who seemed to have no trouble having babies! I began asking that question; "why me?", I became very low with all kinds of questions coming into my mind, what if IVF didn’t work? How come everyone I know can have babies but not me?

God is the answer!

I went to see my doctor again who signed me off work for two weeks because I couldn’t pull myself out of this hole; I just felt so helpless. One morning I decided to do the thing I should have done from the start; I opened my bible and read a verse in Isaiah 54:1, the words hit me, it said:

"Sing o barren woman, you who have never given birth. Break into loud and joyful song, you who have never been in labour, for the desolate woman now has more children than the woman who lives with her husband says the lord ;enlarge your house, build an addition, spread out your home and spare no expense, for you will soon be bursting at the seams, your descendants will occupy other nations and resettle the ruined cities"

I immediately knew this was meant for me, I felt that it had been written for me, it was wonderful, I felt the presence of God in my living room and I knew he had given me a promise, my house would be bursting at the seams, not just full but bursting!! I felt excited for the first time.

Weeks went by and again back and forth to the hospital for more tests and the old feelings started creeping back began to feel sorry for myself again even though God had given me a promise I began to doubt it.

Thankfulness brought freedom!

I phoned my mum one day for a good cry and she reminded me that I needed to change my prayers from being pity prayers practically 'begging' God for a baby, to thanking God for everything he had done in my life already, how he’d totally changed me from how I used to be, and given me a wonderful husband who was so supportive and also to thank God for the baby I was to have. I needed to thank Him for the promise; to sing joyfully just like the Bible verse had said. So I did, and everyday I thanked God for my life and everything in it and also for the children John and I would have.

That summer we went as a church to Bible camp and in the first meeting we attended John was healed; he came out of the meeting knowing he was better. Later that week we were prayed for as a couple and I was told I had to give all my worries to God, that God was in control and knew what I was feeling and that I didn’t have to worry. The lady who prayed for me didn’t know my situation but when my husband and I went home we both knew something fantastic was going to happen,

And it did; 6 weeks later I found out I was pregnant!! It was a wonderful day, I had to do 5 pregnancy tests just so it could sink in, it was a miracle and God had kept his promise to me.

On the 21st may 2008 our son Jonah Daniel was born weighing a very healthy 9lbs 11oz!!

He is wonderful, a total joy in our life, God's promise to us. God not only does the things he says , he changes situations from the impossible to possible; he knows us our inner most desires and only ever wants the best for us.

I believe Jonah is not just a 'fluke' which many people have tried to tell me, but I believe he is a gift from God to our family.

...and it doesn't stop there; in March this year whilst on holiday I discovered I was pregnant again; we are expecting our 2nd baby on the 22nd November 2009.

God is SO good!"

Praise God for the blessing of children; I look forward to seeing their home 'brimming' with children.

Please feel free to contact Katie either by posting a comment at the bottom of this post or emailing me on homegrownbabies@googlemail.com - I will forward all messages to her.

Blessings
Leah

Thankful for what you SEE

2012-01-11T02:08:00.000-08:00

My heart melts most mornings when my 3 year old son, Micah, prays during our morning devotion time. He prays so fervently, with passion and conviction in his voice, his prayers usually go a bit like this:

"Thank you Jesus for Daddy at work, for today, for Nyah, Joel, Mummy, Sienna-Raine, for the books, for the toys, for Toy Story, for apples, for the sofa...and for my birthday, Amen!"

He prays with his eyes open, and looks around the room for 'prompts' as to what to thank Jesus for.

This morning as he was doing this God challenged me "Are you thanking me and praying for what you SEE?"

I close my eyes, see His face, open my spiritual eyes and what do I see?

A fruitful and glorious marriage

Thriving, flourishing children in love with Jesus and hungry to serve Him and love others

A church being the Praise of the whole earth; a hungry people serving Jesus, growing and learning together, loving and supporting one another, building a people and a place where the local community flock to.

A community, a city, a world turning to Jesus; bowing the knee and declaring that HE is Lord.

A people reached, a word preached

A marriage watered

Children nurtured

A mother, a lover of Him

Forever hungry.

That's what I see, that's what I thank Him for - I'm calling things that are not as though they were (Rom 4:17)

"See, I am doing a new thing! Now it springs up; do you not perceive it? I am making a way in the desert and streams in the wasteland." Isaiah 43:19

What do you see?

Many blessings from our home to yours,

Leah

Love God - Love Geography!

2012-01-10T05:14:00.000-08:00

According to Charlotte Mason, our children want the same geographical input and information as adults want, we want to feel the wind in our hair, imagine the journey, sense the feelings of adventure and intrigue - geography is a study and journey into God's amazing world; no one wants to be bored, especially not this home school Mama!

A Charlotte Mason type education is definitely our pedagogy of choice but I am learning and growing constantly in my understanding of what we want for our children's education and how my children learn; so as much as I love Miss Masons ways I wouldn't class myself as a 'purist'...but more about that another time!

Back to Geography! We're loving working our way through Ann Voskamps 'A Child's Geography'; Ann has a Charlotte Mason approach to her writing and each section is followed by a creative way of 'narrating' what you've just read about. My children are enjoying taking their journey through the earth's atmosphere and are at present preparing a simple presentation for Daddy to narrate all they know about the earth's lower atmosphere (you can be really creative with narration techniques).

Another thing we're doing is simply learning the countries of the world by going through continent by continent and learning to recognise maps. I do this by choosing one continent at a time, printing off a blank map and each week the children spend time looking at an atlas map of our chosen continent, then they choose two countries, find them on their blank map, colour and label them. We've been studying Europe since September and we're still going; I love listening to the children discussing what countries they've found, what shape the country is on the map and which countries they are near; such easy but fascinating learning. My end goal is that my children can instantly find a country on a map; anywhere in the world...all it take is one country at a time, easy hey?

Trust you're enjoying God's amazing earth with your children; take time today to soak it in together!

Many blessings

Leah

Check your BP twice a day!

2012-01-09T05:18:00.000-08:00

I've launched straight into 2012 reviewing my life, my schedule, my routines; you name it, it's having an overhaul!

So much of what I get frustrated about or am constantly fighting with is reflective of what is going on my heart. I am challenged on my overflow and am back on my knees crying out like King David; Lord, may the words of mouth and the meditation of my heart be pleasing in your sight.

I'm in the midst of reading many of your inspiring blog posts and e-books around this buzzing new year topic of schedules and changes but I've already decided on one thing; I'm going to check my BP twice a day!

What?

Ok; so it's a play on words but a great reminder for this busy Mama of 4! Two important BP's to check every day are Bible, Prayer, Body (or bike for me) and Planning.

I'm challenged to start my day, even before I lay eyes on my little ones by making these checks.

Am I spending time in the Word, soaking in His wisdom and life? Am I communicating with my heavenly Father, taking time to thank Him, worship Him, adore Him and listen to Him? Am I taking care of myself, thinking about what I'm eating and taking time to exercise or even just to move! Am I planning my days, my meals, my housework; my rest time, my fun time...are these four checks a priority in my day or even my week?

Want to make sure you've got life in your day? Check your BP!

"A peaceful heart gives life to the body" Proverbs 14:30

Have a blessed and gloriously wonderful Monday!

Leah

A dribbling, dazzling Saturday!

2012-01-07T03:22:00.000-08:00

Tetyana Yablonska - A mild winters day

It's almost midday on this mild winter day in our little corner of the world; after an epic 24 hours of nursing a teething baby (and still snuggling her now) you'd have thought I'd have opted for a lie-in this morning! But alas - I had a bad case of the 'over achievements' and decided to get up after Sienna-Raine had settled (after her hundredth feed of the night!).

My husband woke up to the sight of me in some old painting clothes with a shower cap on my head (he laughed and said I looked cute bless him!) and on I went with painting my daughters bedroom ceiling (one of the many Christmas projects we started...), I then got showered, got Sienna-Raine up and ready and popped out to the bank, did some food shopping, bargain hunted for the cabin (on the remaining teeny weeny budget!) and came back with a great mat for wiping our feet on before we go in there (£1.99!!).

So here I am, baby playing round my feet, the other children slowly getting ready after a lovely lazy Saturday morning and hubby is painting the walls of our eldest daughters bedroom (good team work hey?). I'm about to plan our weeks school work; got my list of subjects ready and my mind is full of great ideas; my creative juices are flowing...just a shame my computer cable has broken and I'll be without for a few days; I'm making do with hubby's work computer when he's not using it so I'll be around when I can!

We have friends coming over later; home made pizza on the menu and a relaxing evening while our little ones play...

So leave me to my dribbling little one, my dazzling home educating ideas and my day where I feel I peaked far too soon and I'll leave you to your Saturday.

Praying blessing and fun as you enjoy your family today.

Leah

Education is at Atmosphere

2012-01-04T23:51:00.000-08:00

"Education is an atmosphere, a discipline, a life" Charlotte Mason

We're now in our fourth year of home educating and loving every minute; whether we're studying a map on the dining room table, snuggled up reading a book on the sofa or touring round a local castle site we are learning the fullness of what the wise Miss Mason said; education truly is an atmosphere, a discipline, a life!

After years of deliberation and figuring out how we could make this happen this year we have been blessed with a learning space in our back yard in the shape of this beautiful wooden cabin. We tore down our old concrete garage (storage/junk room!!) and had this usable, all year round room built to bless our family - and we are SO blessed with it!

There are still a few bits to do on the outside as well as to turn our back yard back into a yard rather than a mini building site but the inside is up and running like a dream! I'm slowly transferring resources, books and equipment from the house to the 'cabin' as well as organising and sorting (that's the fun bit hey?!) but lessons in the cabin have commenced!

I will show more photo's as the final project is complete and the back of our house is photographable again but thought you'd like to see these for starters!

Right, back to making labels for boxes (for Sienna-Raine to pull off!!)

Many blessings from our house to yours
Leah

Find HIM and find Favour

2012-01-04T14:29:00.000-08:00

This is the kind of weather we're getting in our little corner of the world today; howling wind and driving rain - perfect weather for hibernating, drinking hot chocolate and reading books whilst snuggled up...if only there weren't piles of laundry to sort, rooms to clean, lessons to teach, meals to cook and life to live (smile); but it's our life and I wouldn't change it for the world!

So, amongst my feelings of delayed new year organisation, decorating and construction mess, lack of planning and the longest 'to do' lists you have every seen, I've been considering the blessing and favour of God.

Proverbs 8: 35 says "For whoever finds me finds life and receives favour from the LORD"; this scripture speaks of seeking God in everything we do, in all our coming and going, in our work, in our decisions, in our mothering and living our life.

We wait at His door, we seek His voice, His hand, and we, in turn, receive His favour.

Over breakfast this morning I read to the children from Deuteronomy 28 which tells us of the blessings for obedience; wow, what a list! I love the continuous picture of life, fruitfulness, beauty and growth and I'm praying this in for my life, my family, my church, my community and for YOU in 2012.

So whatever you find yourself doing today; whether you're like me and still catching up with yourself or you've started 2012 running; consider finding Him in everything you do - from the mundane to the massive; and enjoy His abundant favour on your life.

Many blessings,

Be blessed when you come in and blessed when you go out (Deut 28:6)

Leah

Goal Setting with Children

2012-01-03T03:15:00.000-08:00

So I may have mentioned that I was going to blog about home school planning but since I'm still in the middle of mine I thought I'd wait; I have a general blogging rule that I don't write about a subject when I'm in the middle of tackling it myself so watch this space, I will return to that topic!

Today is our 'official' first day back after the Christmas break, it's raining and howling with wind, my 3 year old has a tummy ache and we've realised our car needs to go in for an MOT; but such is life with a home educating family, things happen, 'interruptions' occur and we learn regardless.

We're still in the midst of organising our lovely new home school room and Mama needs some planning evenings so today I decided over a hot chocolate in the cabin, that we'd look at goal setting and challenged the children to 5 questions:

1. I'd like to get better at...
2. I'd like to learn about...
3. I'd like to get to know.....better (someone who could help them in an area of their education or interests)
4. I'd like to visit... (place of interest, part of the country or world!)
5. One thing I could work on in my character is...

The Word of God shows us a beautiful glimpse of this journey (path) that we're on with Jesus; Psalm 119 reminds us that His Word is a lamp to our feet and a light to our path, Proverbs 4 tells us that the path of the righteous gets brighter and brighter until the full light of day - what an amazing picture!

It's important to know where we're headed, it's important to think about what we'd like to achieve and see happen in the year ahead knowing Jesus is guiding us and cheering us on, it's important for our children to see that they are on a journey too and they too can set goals.

So have a go, try these out on your little treasures, pray together and make a plan on how you can put them into action, let me know how you get on!

Hope you're having a great day!

Many blessings from our home to yours
Leah

Clean up and carry on!

2012-01-02T01:03:00.000-08:00

"So whether you eat or drink, or whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God."

1 Corinthian 10:31

It's with bitter sweet feelings that we leave this holiday period and slowly re-enter 'reality' - today is a bank holiday here in the UK, life is still at a slow pace, people are not quite back to work yet and it's a great opportunity to do that big clean up after the festivities!

I love getting back into routine, cleaning away Christmas for another 11 months and wondering who on earth is going to eat all the left over treats (not me of course!), but today is our last day before Dave has to go back to work (sigh), it's such a treat having him at home but we might just let him out the door tomorrow!

This Christmas we took on a few home decorating projects as well as having builders in and out of the house completing the building of our outdoor school/play cabin (photo's to come) so it has been pretty hectic to say the least; scraping, clearing, painting, plastering have been a pretty major part of our festivities, but all worth it! There is still work to be done, skips to be collected, building materials gracing our back yard but today my focus is bringing peace and order to the little rooms in my home; to the laundry pile, the loo (bathroom!) and my bedroom most definitely needs loving!

So in between nursing a baby, feeding my family, keeping the kiddies out of the sweetie tin (!) I'll be glorying in the mundane and doing it for the glory of the King!

Tomorrow we'll talk home school prep...

Many blessings from our home to yours.

Leah

New Year - New Horizon

2011-12-31T00:00:00.000-08:00

Happy New Year!

The UK celebrated and welcomed in 2012 just over 4 hours ago, yet the youngest of our brood decided to wake up around this time and partaaay it would seem with most of the USA, so here I am after finally ending an epic nursing session and settling her down and I thought I'd kick start my relaunch as early into the new year as promised with a brief new year greeting!

I love new year, I love a new page in our life journal and a new horizon on this great God journey and I want to be deliberate in all I set out to do and I want to be intentional in my plans and endeavours.

God has been speaking to me about charting my path this year, like a sailor on a ship consults the tides and the shipping conditions in order to set his course; so I must look to His word and Spirit to chart my course this year with God navigating this great new journey.

I'll share more on this as it develops but this one thing I do know - I must set my face like flint, look to Jesus, my all in all and run with perseverance the race marked out for me. God loves me; His heart is for me, He loves to pour out His blessing and favour on my life for His glory and I must learn to be a humble receptor of His love.

This is my prayer for 2012 for all who glance at this blog, sneak a peak at these pages from time to time or choose to regularly follow our journey, may you be blessed in abundance and know this scripture as reality in your life:

Grace and peace be multiplied to you in the knowledge of God and of Jesus our Lord, as His divine power has given to us all things that pertain to life and godliness, through the knowledge of Him who called us by glory and virtue, 2 Peter 1:2–3

Leah

Happy Birthday Jesus!

2011-12-25T16:57:00.000-08:00

Joel, Nyah, Sienna-Raine & Micah posing in their Christmas Eve PJ's

Wishing you a very Merry Christmas; blessings galore from our home to yours!

"For a child is born to us, a son is given to us. The government will rest on his shoulders. And he will be called: Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace. "

Isaiah 9:6

Time for a re-launch!

2011-12-18T03:01:00.000-08:00

Ok, ok - so I know I've made mention of this before but after a 'bitty' 18 months or so of blogging (or non-blogging) and after chatting with hubby we've decided to re-launch Home Grown Babies in Jan 2012.

I'm looking forward to sharing my journey and thoughts around motherhood and home education with Jesus at the centre!

Hope you'll join me; in the mean time watch out for snippets of life and updates on FB and Twitter.

You can of course still read old posts. Please forgive me if you've emailed me and I've not got back to you, thank you for getting in touch...I'm catching up and I WILL reply!

Many blessing from our home to yours

Leah

Kissing Sienna (summer 2011)

A praying family is a powerful family

2011-11-17T13:40:00.000-08:00

I was raised in a home where prayer was a habit; my Mum would drive me crazy by her consistent question “have you prayed about it?” but I allowed it to become part of me and I also choose to live this way.

I continue to be amazed at how much we influence our children; not just through how we act or what we say but also though how we pray. One morning last week as the children and I were praying together I was so blessed to hear Joel pray with such faith and conviction; yes he was repeating things he had heard Dave and I pray, but he had made it his own and was now praying it from his heart to the heart of his Father.

The bible tells us faith comes by hearing and hearing the Word of God (Rom 10:17) – we can build faith in our children by praying aloud with them and for them; let them hear you speaking the Word of God over your day, your family, your health etc. Let them hear you cry out to God when you can’t pay the bills, let them see you on your knees praying for other nations – I even make sure our children hear me pray out loud when I need a parking space!

Whether it’s round the dinner table, at the bed side, driving along in the car or during a daily slot in your family’s schedule let me encourage you to pray with your children; watch and be amazed at what God does with their precious lives!

Blessings
Leah

Reciever, NOT achiever...

2011-07-27T04:30:00.000-07:00

Sienna-Raine on Mama's back, almost 6 months old!

Hi there!

Attempting to pluck a moment out of the day to say a long overdue hello, all is well here; still dreaming of a schedule that I can slot some writing/blogging into...I'm working on it for the Autumn (as usual watch this space!).

We've just started our summer break, although this week is clean up the house and de-clutter so we can enjoy some 'down time' together over the next few weeks. We're working on a full 'Charlotte Mason' style home education as of September so Mama here has lots of reading and planning to do but looking forward to starting a new educational journey with my little learners and living full in it myself.

I stopped by to post this article that I read this morning; it's short but packed full of refreshing revelation to us over-achieving Mama's - have a quick cuppa and a read, you won't regret it!

Right - back to it!

Many blessings from our home to yours
Leah

My 2nd Homebirth Story

2011-06-07T14:10:00.000-07:00

So here it is, my long awaited home birth story - I can't quite believe it's been four months; four amazing months with my precious jewel Sienna-Raine.

Please excuse my totally out of date blog info and photos for anyone reading for the first time, infact I look pretty different now! Will get to all that eventually :-)

I tried to capture as much information as possible; for my own memories and for you to enjoy (!), please be warned there is a photo of the placenta (as I'm a total birth junkie!!) so don't scroll down if you pass out at the sight of blood!

If you want more detail about my home birth or home births in general please leave a comment and I'll get back to you when time permits.

So, here goes...

I guess with her being my fourth baby (you can read Micah's home birth story here) I just imagined a few contractions, a gentle push out ‘pop’ out she’s come into my arms! Not so I tell you! Sienna-Raine Hope; my fourth baby came into the world on Monday February 7th after my longest and hardest labour.

I felt this little one would be appearing slightly early; the pressure was getting pretty intense and I was starting to get slight ‘niggles’ now and again. On the evening of Saturday 5th Feb I woke up to go to the bathroom to find I’d had the beginnings of a ‘show’; now in previous labours after a show baby had arrived at least 12 hours later; this was not the case with Sienna.

Throughout the night I started to have mild contractions, they were irregular and gentle and but got me out of bed; I slept when I could. We woke up Sunday morning after not much happening and decided that this must be the day, so we contacted friends to say we wouldn’t be at church and let Grandma know that she needed to pick up the kiddies.

The day was pretty uneventful but Dave and I made the most of our time together between the mild contractions; walking, eating, talking, snuggling and various other ‘tips’ I’d recently read about in Ina May Gaskins ‘guide to natural childbirth’! We felt slightly guilty that we’d palmed the kids off to Grandma when I wasn’t really in labour. The children stayed the night at Grandmas and we enjoyed a well earned take-away dinner and an unofficial ‘date night’ at home!

Sunday soon turned into Monday and things were still sporadic ; I started the day with a big bowl of porridge to keep up my energy levels; and I needed it! I was missing the children so we decided to have them back for the day before the ‘real’ event kicked off! I’d contacted my midwife; the community team knew I was ‘brewing’ (their term not mine!!) so she paid me a visit at home after her surgery appointments. Katy, my fab midwife, did an internal examination so see what was going on, she confirmed that the cervix was very soft but I was still only about 2 centimetres dilated. She also confirmed that Sienna-Raine (‘the baby’) had turned back to back which was my suspicion, which also explained the pains in my lower back. Katy offered to do a ‘sweep’ which I gladly accepted; hoping it would get me on my way. The sweep was done around 5pm on Monday 7th February.

No sooner had the midwife left the door step the contractions came on fast and furious, Dave quickly ran me a bath and I ritually soaked between contractions, with each building contraction I had to stand up in the bath and rock...a good sign!

With the children happily tucked up at Grandmas things really started kicking off and I knew this was really labour; our little princess was nearing her arrival. We phoned the community midwife team and they were soon on their way. Between contractions Dave and I set up the room, cleared space for the midwife to use, lit some candles, put on my birthing music (a mixture of ‘soaking’ and worship music) and made a pot of raspberry leaf tea (great for my hard working uterus!). The midwife arrived, took my vitals, got her ‘stuff’ out and left me to it!

I felt so connected to Dave, we communicated well and I used his strength to get me through every contraction...and if he wasn’t helping me he was creatively updating our facebook status with links to songs that reflected what stage of labour we were in (that’s Dave!)!! The ‘rushes’ (see Ina May’s books) were strong and powerful and I thanked God for each one, helping be bring to birth our precious blessing. Dave held a hot water bottle on my lower back, and I held a cold flannel with lavender essential oil on my forehead; it was perfect team work!

I could feel she was big, I could feel she was working hard with me to come down the birth canal; the labour was strong, but controlled.

I prayed, we prayed
I paced, I rocked, I squatted, I groaned, I breathed, I blew raspberry’s (great tip for relaxing the uterus is to relax the mouth), I knelt on a chair

I laughed, I cried, I smiled, I hugged, I kissed (another great way of relaxing in labour)

I controlled, I wasn’t afraid, I listened (to God, to my body, to my husband)

I endured

The midwife intermittently checked for the baby’s heart beat and checked my pulse – we were both consistently strong, my daughter and I were working hard, standing the course; almost there!

As things started to progress our midwife called for back up as baby was nearing her arrival, soon after midwife no.2 arrived I went into transition; couldn’t speak, couldn’t touch, couldn’t hear; just moved with what my body (and my baby) needed. I could hear my sounds of release, I felt undone but free to birth; in the arms of my husband and the comfort of our own home.

Then came that feeling of no return; that amazing strong feeling to P-U-S-H; we piled high cushions at the edge of our corner sofa, I squatted, my head was gently resting on the tower which swallowed my hard working sweat and the deep groans of labour. With cheers of encouragement and the sting of that final stretch out came into the world Sienna-Raine Hope; 9lb 3oz.

Grace and answered prayed overwhelmed me again as we passed the finish line with no tearing, no cord round the neck and a perfectly pink screaming baby girl. God is so kind.

I turned slowly and embraced my bloody, messy, yelling newborn princess, wrapped tight I held her low beside my body until the umbilical cord stopped pulsing. Dave (now a pro at this!), cut the cord of his fourth child and I lifted her higher and to my chest, her face next to mine and I fell in love again.

Despite my ‘plan’ to allow the placenta to come away naturally my exhausted body held on to it beyond my strength, I was uncomfortable and my body ached from the 7 hour workout I had just endured so that ‘magic shot’ helped it on its way and out it slid; the final part of my 40 week journey leaving my body. I sat on my living room floor; hot and happy and put my daughter to the breast; she happily nursed for some time, I felt so content.

Then there’s the checking, the clearing, the cleaning up, the phoning, the texting, the bathing...and finally, after laying hands on our baby, thanking God for His amazing grace and precious gift to us once again, we slept; tucked up quietly in our own bed, perfect peace.

And we are 6.

Pain; a price paid for perfection.

Thanks for reading my treasured memories; pop by again!

Leah

Happy Times!

2011-05-08T23:52:00.000-07:00

Guesss where we've been for the past two weeks?!

...on a Disneytastic holiday, enjoying the Florida sunshine and my gorgeous husband and family! Fun times, now for the unpacking and dealing with 4 jetlagged children!

New Baby - New Look!

2011-04-06T01:30:00.000-07:00

Okay, so I know she's 8 weeks old already but I DO fully intend to share her birth story very very soon! Apologies I've taken so long; we just happen to have started leading a church at the same time as having our fourth baby - life is FULL but blessed.

Hope you're all loving Jesus and enjoying life in His fullness; I will be back!

What do you think of the brunette locks?? Decided it was time for a change, hubby LOVES it (and that's the main thing hey?!)

Blessings

Leah

Preparing for Birth - Birth Story Part 1

2011-02-18T00:01:00.000-08:00

39 weeks pregnant!

Pregnancy and birth is such an exhilarating and exciting time but I'm sure many of us in our vulnerability also fight fear and the battle in our mind; this time was no different for me. I love being pregnant, I love my womb being full of God's blessing, I love the feeling of fruitfulness and growth - what a privilege to carry another child for God's glory; for the extension of His Kingdom. My pregnancy was a great joy; I felt healthy and strong throughout and bonded with my growing bump with each passing day.

Fresh from the womb in Mama's arms!

I've learnt the importance of preparation for birth; physically, practically and more importantly spiritually. I make sure I get as much rest as possible and preserve my energy, I drink lots of water and over the last few weeks gradually increase my intake of Raspberry leaf tea. I try and keep on top of laundry and basic housework and one great tip I picked up from another blogger is to bag up (large freezer bags) outfits for a few days for your toddler/older baby so that you/hubby/older siblings are not searching for little socks or a clean t-shirts while you're resting, they can just grab the bag and dress the little ones.

I spend time specifically speaking into the birth, confessing the Word of God over my body and my baby. I also spend time 'soaking' in the presence of God; Dave and I collated a beautiful selection of soaking/worship music for the birth which I would play for baby and I during our mid-day rest time. I enjoy the 'quiet' over the last few weeks of pregnancy and try not to fill my days with busyness or unnecessary activity; I am so aware of my spirit being at peace and being fully ready for the glorious marathon of labour and birth that I am about to embark on!

Another part of my preparation was to read (twice) Ina May Gaskins 'Guide to Childbirth' - Ina May is known as one of America's leading midwifes and her life's work has been in developing a culture and understanding (and, in fact an actual community; 'The Farm') of beautiful natural childbirth; she encourages women to believe in what their bodies are fully capable of and enjoy the process and experience of birth...I'm ALL about that!! The book is full of inspiring birth stories as well as guidance to help us enjoy birth to the fullest; I used many of her 'tips'; and they worked a treat!...

...but that's for next time!

I'll be back soon with the actual 'details' you're all waiting for!!

Many blessings

Leah

The Great Arrival!

2011-02-15T03:03:00.000-08:00

Nyah; helping me through a contraction in early labour...whilst Daddy made us laugh!

Sienna-Raine Hope was born at home on Monday 7th February (3 days early!) late evening; she weighed 9lb 3oz and measured 56cm!

I'll be back soon to document her birth story but here's a few pictures until then!

We're doing well, adjusting to having a newborn in the house again but enjoying the blessing of God in total awe of another little miracle created by His hands.

4 little munchkins!

Snoozing on Mama - just hours old

Fresh out of the womb!

Many blessings,

Leah

Fruitful Vine

2011-02-02T07:01:00.000-08:00

"Your wife will be like a fruitful grapevine, flourishing within your home. Your children will be like vigorous young olive trees as they sit around your table."

Psalm 128:3

I sit here 39 weeks pregnant with our precious treasure #4 and am amazed at how impatient I can be! I've waited 9 long months to hold this child in my arms and I'm struggling to wait a possible few more days..or a week or two!

I've been meditating on this wonderful verse from Psalm 128 - I love picturing myself as this heavy laden fruitful vine (I certainly feel like it!!) ready for the master gardener to pluck his fruit at just the right time. His timing is perfect and His fruit is beautiful, 'choice' fruit - what a wonderful picture.

So I will be patient

I will sit and consider my creator

His awesome love, kindness and faithfulness

The master gardener - preparing his tools; His peace, guidance and love

To bring this choice fruit into His Kingdom

Made and created for His glory

In my womb

What a privilege, what an honour to serve our King in this way

I will wait - I will wait with the King

In eager anticipation of His great workmanship

Many blessings from our home to yours,

Leah

A Decade of Love!

2010-12-17T01:47:00.000-08:00

16th December 2000

...just the beginning

Dave and I are celebrating our 10th wedding anniversary this week - what a blessed adventure marriage is; I am thankful to God for His amazing and never ending love and grace in our life.

I am more in love with my prince today than ever before and and look forward with great faith and anticipation of what God has in store for us over the next decade.

Many blessings

Leah

And Advent begins...

2010-11-30T12:46:00.000-08:00

I'm sat at the table in my dining room with a wiggly 30 week old baby in utero trying to distract me; I'm excitedly doing last minute bits of reading and research to launch our family into this wonderful season of Advent. Our 'readings' of choice to accompany our Jesse Tree this year will be from the very generous Ann Voskamps blog 'Holy Experience' who has her devotional book available free!

I'll hopefully be posting pics over the next four weeks as we draw closer to celebrating the birth of our King and Saviour.

On another totally different subject; I do realise that I haven't shared much about Dave and I's trip to Zambia this past summer but one place we did visit which really impacted us and the students we took out there was our trip to the 'Fountain Gate Orphanage' in Lusaka. Fountain Gate is a pretty new initiative set up by a local Christian organisation to house, educate and nurture some of Lusaka's vulnerable children. We met some amazingly precious little ones who's lives had been turned around by the work of the orphanage but more so had been impacted by Jesus Christ.

Some of the students from the Grace Academy schools have beautifully written and recorded a song to raise money for the orphanage; you can download it now from itunes for 79p (search 'Grace Academy, a gift for everyone') and all proceeds will go to support the orphanage and their great work.

And also check out the music video which Dave has been involved in directing and editing this week...

Many blessings from our home to yours
Leah

We Go Together

2010-11-28T14:23:00.000-08:00

Well we've finally made the move towards the blog I've been making mention of since earlier on this year...Dave and I are concluding 2010 by setting up a joint blog called 'Empowered by Grace Envisioned by Hope' - of course it's really in its baby stages so bare with us whilst we find time to tinker and write but we're excited about sharing our heart together for our family, the Church and the world!!

I'll still be here when time permits writing about growing babies, home schooling, home making etc...and I know I still owe you a few posts on our trip to Zambia and to finally finish off the series I started on hospitality; thank you for being so patient and gracious with this pregnant Mama!!

So, add us to your blog roll and keep an eye out for regular inspiring posts (my hubby is a GREAT writer!), reviews and news - we look forward to sharing our heart and growing passions with you!

Find us blogging here

...and because I'm sure you're wondering

29 Weeks Pregnant...feeling great!

Many blessings from our home to yours!

Leah

A Few Autumn Pics!

2010-10-22T05:43:00.000-07:00

I love the changing colours

Our nature table...still in progress

A touch of Waldorf inspiration on our nature table!

Some homemade Autumn tea-light holders

Cute findings from the pumpkin farm shop

Many blessings from our home to yours!

Leah

What is 'normal' and 'healthy'?

2010-09-22T00:05:00.000-07:00

Check out this great article to find out...

Blessings
Leah

A Great Reward!

2010-08-19T01:44:00.000-07:00

(15 week baby in the womb)

"Behold, children are a gift of the LORD, The fruit of the womb is a reward."
Psalm 127:3

We're excited to announce that baby #4 is growing well in my womb! I'm 15 weeks and we're due some time around early/mid February.

I'm still fighting nausea but hoping that will calm down pretty soon; I'm already feeling tiny movements and thank God for every precious 'popping' feeling reminding me of this awesome miracle of life.

We're still occupied getting our home and routine back together after travelling near and far over the past 4 weeks and celebrating 3 of our family birthdays; the laundry mountain is getting smaller and I'm slowly tackling each room but taking it all my stride!

August is usually my sorting and planning month for the new school year and we'll kick off early September with lots of fresh inspiration and goals for our learning.

I have much to share about our trip to Zambia and in good time I'll get there!

Many blessings to you!

Leah

2010-08-09T00:14:00.000-07:00

Pastures New...

2010-06-07T12:19:00.000-07:00

If you're reading this then you've most likely been given a private 'invite'; please feel free to let others know they can do this by emailing me at homegrownbabies@gmail.com with their email address and I'll send out an invite.

We've had an enjoyable months break over here at HGB; Dave and I are still planning and holding off on 'main stream' blogging for a little while longer but we'll keep you posted on what this new season brings...

The BIG news is that I'm accompanying Dave on a work trip to Zambia in about 4 weeks time; unfortunately we can't take the children this time so our wonderful parents and some precious friends have supported us in our exciting venture together and are taking our little blessing for 12 days - pray for all our hearts as we're apart, and pray that Dave and I will do damage for the Kingdom of God whilst we work together with the 28 unsaved young people who we are taking out there. More on the trip nearer the time!

That's all for now; I trust you're all well and enjoying the blessing of God as you serve Him in your homes and with your families.

Many blessings

Leah

Popping Out For a While...

2010-05-08T11:15:00.000-07:00

We've got major computer issues here - poor thing is on its way out so I apologies for 'abandoning ship' just as we've started a 'series' but all will be quiet here on HGB for a while...

Many Blessings
Leah

Homemade Mini Sand Pit!

2010-05-05T08:58:00.000-07:00

I'm really enjoying the slightly (it is England after all) warmer weather and the opportunity for the children to learn and explore outside. I lay toys and tubs of activities in the garden at the beginning of the day and encourage them to get out and play; they even asked to sit outside and write up their science work today - perfect!

The picture above is of my home-made sand pit; we bought a bag of sand to make a 'worm home' this morning so I decided to make further use of the excess sand and make our own mini sand-pit. I took a large shallow basket (it must have wire in it or something as the one I used is pretty heavy), lined it with oil cloth and threw in some sand - add a few children and there you have it! It's small enough to store in the garage/play room at the end of the day and just big enough for little hands!

If you've missed the last few days here at 'Home Grown Babies' we've started a series on 'Thoughts on Hospitality', you can read the introduction here and part 1 here - please feel free to add your thoughts and comments.

Trust you're enjoying the fullness of God in your little corner of the world!

Abundant blessings

Leah

Thoughts on Hospitality - Part 1

2010-05-04T11:46:00.000-07:00

"If all you have in the house is jam and bread you can still share it with others"

Patricia - AKA My Mum!

Hospitality has to start with a love for your home; if you don't love your home or love being in it why would anyone else?

You don't need a huge house and 'fine' things to fill your home; from a simple caravan (trailer) to the quintessential English manor; unless there is peace, unless there is a heart given to the home, unless there is an openness of heart and mind to whom enters your doors there can not be a full understanding of hospitality.

Hospitality is far more than inviting your 'friends' round for dinner - hospitality is far stretching your heart, home and often your 'pocket' to serve others.

I love the recent post from 'A Wise Woman Builds Her Home'; this part really stood out to me:

"Mother, turn your heart towards home!!! If you have a straying heart that always wants to be out shopping and driving all over town, surfing the net, emotionally distracted and absent with the non-important, pray that the Lord will give you a heart to stay home, to be present, to love it and to faithfully learn how to manage it well. It is well known that the woman is the heart of the home------but if she is gone all the time, now the home is lonely and empty. "

I am saddened when I hear comments like "I would go brain dead if I was home all day" or "I don't what I would do all day, I would get so bored" or even "it's good for me to be out of the house..."; I'm sure you've heard them and I can't disagree more - I am more fulfilled, envisioned and excited about building my home (which means being at home) than ever before in my life; I wouldn't want to be anywhere else or be serving anyone else than my husband and my children; BUT this has not come overnight, God has done a great transforming work in my life and has turned my heart to my home.

Homemaking and hospitality go perfectly hand in hand - you are loving and building your home and welcoming others to share in the peace and love that you have cultivated within its walls.

Wanting to be hospitable is an issue of the heart; not for a specific 'personality type' or just for 'outgoing' families but for ALL .

Hospitality has spiritual and eternal value - it must not be seen as merely providing food or a place to say for passers by; Hebrews 13:2 tells us:

"Do not forget to entertain strangers, for by so doing some people have entertained angels without knowing it."

And over in Romans (12:13) Paul instructs us to:

"Share with God's people who are in need. Practice hospitality."

Are we ready to be inconvenienced?

Are we ready for the 'extra' work?

Are we ready to train our children to welcome visitors from all walks of life?

Are we ready to go beyond our comfort zone, beyond our 'friends' and open our hearts to the possibility of entertaining angels?

Are we ready to hear the promptings of the Holy Spirit to how we walk out this instruction to 'practice hospitality'?

This is not just cooking a meal, making sure the house is 'visitor worthy' (tidy) or making up the spare bed - this is our mission; this is part of the picture of fulfilling the Great Commission - will we take up the challenge and play our part in building Gods Kingdom?

Ladies, is your heart at home?

Then share what you have.

And I'll continue to share my journey...

Be abundantly blessed

Thoughts on Hospitality

2010-05-03T13:54:00.000-07:00

The birthday boy with his youngest son!

We've had a wonderful weekend celebrating Dave's 30th birthday and enjoying the UK bank holiday weekend!

Our open house was a great success; we had over 80 people come through our home in one day - Dave was blessed and it created a great memory for our family.

We're all still recovering; started to get the house back in order but still lots to do - the children are exhausted and were in bed by 6.30pm tonight; but it was SO worth it.

And it doesn't stop...

Dave has guests coming into town for a special event at work this week so I'll be feeding 12 tomorrow night...a breeze compared to 80!!

I love learning about and growing in hospitality; I love being able to serve my husband in this way and allow God to enlarge my capacity and teach me along the way:

"Offer hospitality to one another without grumbling. Each one should use whatever gift he has received to serve others, faithfully, administering God’s grace in its various forms."

1 Peter 4:9-10

Mini-Series coming soon!

In an attempt to share my continued journey in hospitality I thought I would write a mini-series on 'thoughts on hospitality'; a chance to explore the scripture, share lessons I learnt from my Mum!, ideas on how to train our children for hospitality, simple practical homemaking ideas for hospitality, food ideas & recipes for feeding the 5000 and much much more...

Sound like something you'd like to read?

Keep an eye on 'Home Grown Babies' over the next few weeks and I'll hopefully throw in a number of parts from this series in between other posts.

Until then I still have laundry to catch up on and a sink to shine (thanks flylady!!); and at some point I'll snuggle up with my handsome 30 year old and catch up on some rest.

Many blessings to you and your households - may you know the peace of God in every corner of your home this week!

All partied out!

My Little Cup Cake!

2010-04-29T05:57:00.000-07:00

It's Dave's 30th birthday tomorrow and we're having an 'all day open house' on Saturday to celebrate - so lots of happy work to prepare.

Here's a pic of our mass cupcake making session with my little helper at hand!

Now for clean up...

Blessings
Leah

Connecting with your Children

2010-04-27T00:00:00.000-07:00

A message 'caught on camera' for Daddy when he was away last week

I was recently listening again to Nancy Campbell speak on 'Mothers with a Mission'; each time I listen I 'hear' more gems of wisdom to apply to my own life.

At one point she addresses a comment that some mothers of large families get which is 'how do you get individual time with them all'; I don't know about you but even with my three I often feel like I should have 'slots' where they get my undivided attention.

Nancy quite rightly debunks this thought pattern and refreshingly speaks about mothering in 'moments'; when a child needs a hug as they've fallen over, when a child grasps your leg as you're cooking, when a child is reading to you etc. give them your 100% attention; even if it's only for a 'moment'; look in their eyes, cherish them and allow your child to capture that glimpse of time that is so precious.

Of course we have 'dates' with our children when we can and there are some things that I do with Nyah that don't involve the boys and the same goes for Dave with Joel and Micah; but here we are talking about the day to day living and learning with our children around the home.

In the light of these wise words I reflected on my own mothering and those 'moments' of time I get with my little blessing throughout the day, I thought about each child and asked myself -

"When do I best connect with Nyah/Joel/Micah"?

I smile at them throughout the day, I hug and kiss them at every given opportunity
I pray, I teach, I mend, I feed, I help, I love...in moments.

I know these 'times' will change, and maybe these moments of connection are revealing their present love languages but I treasure them.

With Nyah I connect when she's on my knee, in my arms and I'm praying for her
With Joel I connect with him when I'm playing with him; lego, blocks, catch - just playing
With Micah I connect when I'm nursing him, looking into each others eyes, feeding and nurturing

When do you best connect with each of your children?

Mark it today, remember this precious 'stage' and what those 'moments' mean to you
Journal this part of their journey

Let's make each moment one to remember

Be richly blessed!
Leah

Journaling the Journey

2010-04-25T00:03:00.000-07:00

"Blessed are those whose strength is in you, who have set their hearts on pilgrimage"
Psalm 84:5

I certainly haven't arrived, I often wonder if I've left the starting block but I am sure that my own God 'journey' is to be embraced and celebrated no matter how long it takes.

As I look back on my journey; especially on my years growing into womanhood and learning how to be a wife and mother; the path has some interesting twists and turns.

"...being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus."
Phil 1:6

Embracing my own journey and marking my own failings and celebrations has helped me give room for others to walk their own path too; embracing who they are and trusting God will guide them through just like He has done for me.

I have learnt it is important to be teachable, to be soft of heart and slow to speak - especially when I don't have a clue about something!

I have learnt to be around people who are ahead of me in a similar journey, who have walked the walk and are living in the fruit of their righteous and faithful living.

"He who walks with the wise grows wise, but a companion of fools suffers harm."
Prov 13:20

I have learnt to not look back with regret but thank God for re-directing my path, for opening my eyes and showing me abundant grace in that season. I have learnt to be thankful for my journey, I have learnt to love my journey.

I continue on my path; this path of peace - I hold dearly every challenge, every heartache, every victory, every blessing; for I know that the great potter is forming, molding and shaping me to be more like Him

"And yet, O LORD, you are our Father. We are the clay, and you are the potter. We all are formed by your hand."
Isaiah 64:8

This path brings blessing, this path brings hope, this path brings joy - brighter and brighter.

"The way of the righteous is like the first gleam of dawn, which shines ever brighter until the full light of day."
Prov 4:18

And I walk with confidence the path He has laid out for me; I walk with my head held high and a spring in my step as the JOY of the Lord is my strength - each day He has fresh mercies waiting for me, abundant grace and a song to sing over me

"The LORD your God is with you, he is mighty to save. He will take great delight in you, he will quiet you with his love, he will rejoice over you with singing."
Zeph 3:17

This is our journey; this is our pilgrimage - our journey to a sacred place; a place of complete peace, a place of rest.

"He leads me beside quiet waters, he restores my soul."

Psalm 23: 2-3

Set your heart on pilgrimage - what a journey - what a story
It's yours for the taking...for the walking

Be abundantly blessed!

Words and Pictures

2010-04-21T06:52:00.000-07:00

Vintage rose print sits pretty on my mantel piece

Dave, my wonderful husband - as I type he's in the air on his way to South Africa for a friends wedding; I've got 'I miss you' aches already!!

Dressing up fun in the yard

A ride on Mama's back in the leafy pod

One boy plays, another one does an English lesson; both just as fun!

Toddler tea time!

Learning new things at the Natural History Museum in London

Joel finishes off the dregs of a very large dessert to share at the Rain Forest Cafe in London

Fun with friends - Leicester Square in London

Micah loving the Rain Forest Cafe!

Toddler activities; Micah filling a jar with marbles - great for hand-eye coordination!

...just a few snaps from our home; trust you're having a great week

Be blessed
Leah

How Lovely is HIS dwelling Place

2010-04-20T01:59:00.000-07:00

How lovely is your dwelling place, O LORD Almighty!

My soul yearns, even faints,
for the courts of the LORD;
my heart and my flesh cry out
for the living God.

Even the sparrow has found a home,
and the swallow a nest for herself,
where she may have her young—
a place near your altar,
O LORD Almighty, my King and my God.

Blessed are those who dwell in your house;
they are ever praising you.
Selah

Blessed are those whose strength is in you,
who have set their hearts on pilgrimage.

As they pass through the Valley of Baca,
they make it a place of springs;
the autumn rains also cover it with pools.

They go from strength to strength,
till each appears before God in Zion.

Hear my prayer, O LORD God Almighty;
listen to me, O God of Jacob.
Selah

Look upon our shield, O God;
look with favor on your anointed one.

Better is one day in your courts
than a thousand elsewhere;
I would rather be a doorkeeper in the house of my God
than dwell in the tents of the wicked.

For the LORD God is a sun and shield;
the LORD bestows favor and honor;
no good thing does he withhold
from those whose walk is blameless.

O LORD Almighty,
blessed is the man who trusts in you.

Psalm 84

Rest in Him today - blessings

Leah

An Honest Blog Award

2010-04-17T23:35:00.000-07:00

I graciously accept this 'Honest Scrap' award from Rebekah at Reflection Space, I've know Rebekah (in 'real' life) since before we were both married so we go back some time, she's a beautifully gifted woman of grace and peace, full of fun and great hope for her and her family; go check out her blog if you haven't already! Thanks Bex :)

According to the rules, I have to share 10 honest things about myself with you, and then pass the award onto 10 other lovely bloggers!

Number 1. I have had a passionate love for Jesus from a very young age, cultivated by my amazing parents. I played 'church' in my bedroom, prayer lines and healings were always the order of the day...I also used to baptise my dolls in the bath (now I AM being honest)!!

By the grace of God, by growing up in a house of peace, by having parents who war in prayer for their children I have never taken my eyes off Him!

HE is my first love and my first priority.

Number 2. If I could write a book about anything (and hopefully will one day) it would be titled something like 'Keeping Eternity in your Eyes' - living out your life as a disciple of Jesus, wife and mother with an eternal perspective © Home Grow Babies 2010

I have much to learn before I could even start to scribble down the first few lines, but I yearn to live it out everyday, with every joy and every hardship I am ruined to think I could live any other way that for Him and for His eternal purposes...everything else pails in significance.

Number 3. Dave and I fell in love on a mission trip to Orkney, he was 18 and about to start University, I was a 23 year old graduate who had just finished a year on a christian discipleship course in the States - we married 2 years later.

I love being married
I love Dave - he's more than I could have asked or dreamed of
It gets better and better...

Number 4. My life has been touched and moulded by some amazing women over the years, I've loved those special friendships, if only for a season they have made me who I am today. I have been blessed and continue to be blessed to have some beautiful, anointed and gifted women around me, some live at the other side of the world, some around the country but quite a few live round the corner (you know who you are) - ladies you bless me, speak into my life and serve our family like no others, we LOVE you!

Number 5. I love learning about and practicing hospitality - I LOVE my house filled with people, I love making them feel welcome, filling their tummies, making memories and our prayer is that our family and home would be a haven for many.

My dream is to have a home and land big enough for our family to live on (with a veggie patch and a dog of course) but also to be able to welcome orphans, widows, single mums, teenage mums (you get the idea) to be part of our family for as long as they need.

Our heart and vision is BIG, our house right now is SMALLer...but we've never let that stop us!!

Joel - sweet face!

Number 6. I feel much better about the day when I've blown dried my hair, got my contacts in and applied some light make-up!

Number 7. I have been a mother for almost 8 years; I learnt to love motherhood about 3 years ago...it's very different!

Nyah praying

Number 8. I didn't learn to drive till I was 30!!! (this is more normal in the UK than it is in the States believe me...I'm not a total freak!!)

Number 9. I love to sing, I know I have musical gifting but have never really disciplined myself enough to really tap into these, I can play many instruments 'by ear'; you sing it. I'll play it!!

I LOVE these faces!

Number 10. I'd love to go to China one day; it has always been a nation I have prayed for, interceded for and felt a burden for - when I was in my early twenties I thought I would end up being a missionary there...the dream hasn't faded

Now it's your turn; I award the 'Honest Scrap' award to:

A Mum with three little Arrows
Rachel's Ramblings
Raising Godly Daughters
Raising a Quiver Full
Jo's Boys
A Mother's Heart
Jenny @ Be Fruitful
A Firefighters Wife
Life with the Boys
The Wilman Family Blog (this would be a great first post Lucy!!)

Enjoy - have fun with it!

Many blessings
Leah

Snap Shot

2010-04-15T23:21:00.001-07:00

Family shot in the entrance of the Natural History Museum in London

Just popping by on this beautiful sunny morning - hope you're all having a blessed week and are enjoying the fullness of God in every way.

Dave is off work this week so we've been clocking up lots of lovely family time before he jets off on an overseas trip next week. We also have friends staying for the week so we've had a few days of good food, good conversation and good times; oh and also lots of late nights!

Back soon...
Blessings
Leah

Shaking off the Winter!

2010-04-12T00:38:00.000-07:00

Boys and bricks!

It's Monday morning, the house is still sleeping and I managed to creep downstairs without disturbing the sweet slumber. I love early morning in the spring time, I can hear the birds busily at work chirping to each other, a perfect new day that God has made for us to enjoy.

"The faithful love of the Lord never ends!
His mercies never cease.
Great is his faithfulness;
his mercies begin afresh each morning."
Lamentations 3: 22-23

This weekend I've had chance to dig, plant and potter in my little garden - I love seeing it spring into life, shaking off the winter and allowing new growth to be seen, beautiful tiny buds full of hope and promise, green leaves soaking in fresh water, spring flowers decorating this old winter palate.

And here we are, a new day, a new season - buds appearing, full of hope and promise.

Have you shaken off winter yet?

God is wooing us, loving us and drawing us to allowing Him to breathe new life upon all that he has placed within us, watering us with his love and mercy, bringing colour and growth.

Take off the dead leaves, dig over the dry soil and allow LIFE to come forth

"The winter is past;
the rains are over and gone.

Flowers appear on the earth;
the season of singing has come,
the cooing of doves
is heard in our land.

The fig tree forms its early fruit;
the blossoming vines spread their fragrance.
Arise, come, my darling;
my beautiful one, come with me."

Song of Songs 2: 11 - 13

Man work; teaching, training, talking - decorating!

Pretty flowers, pretty Nyah

OH so cute!

Be refreshed today precious mothers, shake off the winter allow God to do His wonderful work in this season.

Be blessed

The Amazing Prolactin & Oxytocin!

2010-04-08T13:32:00.000-07:00

"...As a mother comforts her child, so will I comfort you;
and you will be comforted over Jerusalem."
Isaiah 66:13

I am continually amazed and overwhelmed by Gods perfect design for mothers; He created our bodies to feed, nurture and comfort our children. I've recently been reading about what happens to our bodies during these times and the bonding/nurturing affect it has on the mother and the child;

Ladies we are pretty amazing!!

Instead of me giving you snippets of what I've read, I've quoted from an article that Nancy Campbell has written (which is also in her book 'The Power of Motherhood') entitled 'Mothers are Nuturers'. Nancy writes here about Prolactin and Oxytocin:

Prolactin

When a mother is nursing her baby, the hormone, prolactin, is operating. This is a very strong 'love hormone' which bonds the mother to her baby. Animal studies with this hormone are most interesting. When it is injected into a rooster, it will make the rooster become clucky and mother chickens!

How about that? A female animal that is nursing her young in the wild will fight to death any intruder upon her young, whereas after weaning, she does not show this protection.

The mother who is nursing her baby is bound to her baby. She finds it hard to leave her baby with a baby-sitter. This is God's plan. He does not intend for mothers to leave their babies after a few months to pursue their career. They already have a more important career. Breastfeeding ties them to one another.

Oxytocin

This hormone, which is released by the pituitary gland, is the hormone that stimulates the mother's letdown or milk-ejection reflex (the tingly sensation you feel when the milk lets down). This is a wonderful hormone that has a calming affect upon the mother. Every time the milk 'lets down' she experiences a feeling of relaxation and calm and sometimes sleepiness comes over her.

God is good. When we do things His way, we get His benefits. He knows that mothers need this calming hormone and He has graciously provided it for us.

A study cited by Dr. Niles Newton, Professor of Behavioral Sciences at Northwestern University of Chicago says "mothers who were exclusively breastfeeding their infants had higher levels of oxytocin during feedings than mothers who were breastfeeding and giving formula supplements."

Randee Romano writes about a study, which "indicates that the secretion of oxytocin is a conditioned response, meaning that a mother's body may produce oxytocin in response to familiar sights, sounds, or activities, not just from the direct stimulation of breastfeeding.

In a small sample of nursing mothers, all showed an increase in oxytocin before the baby was put to breast. This will not surprise mothers who feel their milk let down when their babies cry. In fact, half of the women in the study experienced this. An increase in oxytocin levels was also measured in 30 percent of the mothers when their babies became restless and in 20 percent of the women as they were preparing to nurse."

You can read the whole article on the Above Rubies website here.

How awesome! When we breast feed our babies it makes us calm, relaxed and fall more in love with them; we also continue to reap these benefits for as long as we breast feed for.

My precious little nursling Micah is now almost 21 months old; he mostly nurses before bed, once or twice in the night/early morning (he's tucked in snug next to me) and occasionally, depending on what is going on he likes to 'chill' with Mama and nurse in the day too. It really is as relaxing as putting your feet up with a cup of coffee on a sunny afternoon; breastfeeding IS relaxing...I have to stop myself from falling asleep.

It's also a great tool for calming down a busy toddler and the best medicine for a poorly little one - I've seen nursing work wonders right before my eyes!

Research also shows that if you look at your baby/toddler whilst nursing (rather than watching TV or reading) this increases the levels of Oxytocin - so you feel even more relaxed and 'gooey' about your little blessing (and life in general!).

Breastfeeding isn't easy; I've had more challenges nursing Micah than with any of my children BUT I've caught a glimpse of the big picture and the personal 'sacrifice' is SO worth it for my sons present and future health and well being.

There are so many amazing benefits of nurturing our children the way God designed us to but we'll explore those another time...

May you be richly blessed today!

P.S I found La Leche League very helpful when I was going through a challenging time with Micah when he was about 11 months old. I found lots of great information on the website and they were extremely encouraging when I phoned the phone line; don't be afraid to ask for help!

The Springtime of Mothering!

2010-04-06T14:30:00.000-07:00

I'm really enjoying following Joy's series over at 'The Stay at Home Missionary'; her post today talks of another obstacle that can come in the way of being victorious in our home life as wives and mothers: being too busy!

This quote from Sono Harris (mother of 7) really spoke to my heart:

"The season of young children is a time to refrain. Refrain from most outside activities, even church activities. Now is a time to be faithful in discipline...it's the springtime of mothering. Redeem the time, don't waste it."

Go over to Joy's site if you haven't done already and check out her refreshing and thought provoking series.

Enjoy your springtime of mothering - I plan on doing so!

Blessings
Leah

Fun With Oil Cloth

2010-04-06T02:03:00.000-07:00

I think I've always just assumed this stuff was expensive (probably should shop further than the Cath Kidston catalogue next time!!) but whilst recently 'mooching' round 'The Range' I came across this bargain PVC cloth; all these amazing designs cost a mere £1.90 per metre (apart from the one with a tea and coffee pot on, that was £2.30 p/m).

I must say I didn't buy it all in one go!! I bought 2 metres of two designs to use as table cloths then came home and did my research which led me to a plethora of ideas to use this fab cloth for...so I went and got more this week!

So apart from table cloths (which you just put on the table, no need to hem as the cloth doesn't fray) and a painting apron in the makings for Micah this is what I've done:

A lunch bag and a cook book cover

I like the cook book cover as you can slip recipes in the sleeve as well as it keeping your book water and splash proof!

For the cook book cover you can go to the links on here for a easy tutorial (I think they use glue) but I just figured it out, measured the book, added length for the flap on either side then whizzed the edges through the sewing machine to make this cute addition to my kitchen!

The lunch bag was an idea from a Martha Stewart magazine (thanks to Hilary for popping the mag through my door) but she also has a tutorial on her website here.

I'm planning on making lunch bags for the boys with the green gingham and another one of these pretty ones for Nyah (I'll have the first 'practice' one!). You can use any pegs to hold them together but I just picked up these cute ones from a garden centre gift shop over Easter weekend.

I'll keep you updated on more oil cloth adventures as I get the chance...watch this space!

We've had a lovely Easter weekend in Yorkshire with my parents; we're now running on a lighter schedule for a week or two before we get our heads down for the summer term and finish our second year of home educating.

Trust you've had a lovely weekend and have a blessed day building your home.

Blessings
Leah

Beautiful Womanhood - LAF Relaunch

2010-04-01T13:19:00.000-07:00

Just wanted to let you know about a GREAT website that is re-launching; 'Ladies Against Feminism' - the writers are amazing inspiring ladies who not only talk the talk but have (and are still doing) walking the walk of faith and liberty in living out beautiful biblical womanhood. Whether I have agreed or disagreed with all the content of the articles I personally have often found them to be inspiring, thought provoking and challenging.

Pop over and check it out; at the moment they have a great give-away of 'daughters of his story' paper dolls - you can enter by clicking here.

Enjoy!

Blessings
Leah

Easy (Yummy) Banana Cake

2010-03-31T00:04:00.000-07:00

My husband isn't really 'into' anything with bananas in; muffins, bread, cake - he will often 'endure' it as he's so sweet but comments afterwards how it's not really his favourite food!!

I hate to waste slightly ripe bananas, but no one will eat them in our house so I like to experiment with different recipes

This one was a winner with Dave so I just had to share it with you!!

Got this great easy recipe from here - but as usual I have adapted it...

What you need:

4oz butter or margarine
6oz sugar (granulated, caster, or mix in some demerara, whatever you have to hand)
8oz self raising flour
1/2 tsp Cinnamon (optional)
2 eggs
2 large or 3 medium, very ripe bananas
Handful of mixed seeds (optional)

Grease a 2lb loaf tin.
Mash the bananas with a sturdy fork.
Cream the butter and sugar together and mix in the eggs
Mix together the two yellow sludges you now have.
Mix in the flour and Cinnamon
Throw in the seeds and mix.
Scrape into the loaf tin and bake at gas mark 5 for 40 minutes then lower the temperature to gas mark 2; 150C and cook for a further 30 minutes.

Let it cool slightly before you take it out of the tin ( put on a wire rack to cool ) - I didn't leave it long enough and my cake broke slightly (you can just about see it on the photo at the top).

Let it totally cool before eating - believe me it's tastes MUCH better when it has sat for a while.

I made two cakes; one for the freezer then I iced one with butter icing (just used the recipe from the back of the icing packet and added coco and a handful of choc chips - YUM) to serve my family after dinner...and to munch on during the week (it's a big cake!!).

Enjoy with a cup of tea!

Blessings
Leah

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A Life of Servanthood

2010-03-29T01:24:00.000-07:00

"So he got up from the table, took off his robe, wrapped a towel around his waist, and poured water into a basin. Then he began to wash the disciples’ feet, drying them with the towel he had around him"
John 13:4 - 5

The Easter story has been (and continues to be) such a powerful message to re-tell to my children; over the past few days we've been slowly making our way through the days building up to Jesus' death and resurrection; reading, remembering, drawing and writing to help capture in our hearts and minds what Jesus did for all mankind.

Last week I read to the children the account of the last supper and they were gripped by the fact that Jesus (our King) would wash the disciples feet (especially after I explained that they would have been covered in sand, dirt and possibly animal poo!!). As I was reading I felt the Holy Spirit prompt me to do the same with my children.

I filled a bowl with warm soapy water and sat around their cute bare feet with a big towel on my knee; one by one I washed their feet whilst talking to them about the power of servanthood; how Jesus was our ultimate example and how our lives are to be laid down for others today.

The moment was very powerful and my heart burst with love for my children, I was overwhelmed that God would bless me with these three gifts - to serve.

I realised deeply at that moment that my great calling as a mother was to serve -
To serve King Jesus
To serve my precious husband
To serve these gifts of children

As tears ran down my face (the children usually ask 'are you Jesus crying Mummy?') they asked if they could wash my feet; fun for them - a powerful and a lasting moment in time for me.

I looked down at one point and both my sons had their hands in the water washing my feet; it was such a beautiful picture of family; giving our life for each other; loving, treasuring and serving each other.

The day went on; teaching, blowing noses, changing nappies, cooking, correcting, washing dishes...but something had happened in my heart that was lasting; a memory to capture, a precious treasure of time.

I pray for Gods refreshing and direction for you today as you mother your precious gifts,

Many blessings
Leah

Meditating Mothers

2010-03-25T04:42:00.000-07:00

It's quiet time here in our home; the children are resting or napping in their rooms so here I am with a cup of tea for a moment of 'pause', a 'selah'; we all need them don't we?

As time goes by I am slowly learning 'how' to cultivate a devotionally anchored relationship with my Father whilst being a busy wife and home educating mum; for a time I didn't think it was possible - there are so many 'distractions' so many 'other things' to do that seem important.

The fact is; unless I am full of the Holy Spirit, rooted in the Word of God and walking in obedience how can I fulfil my role as a biblical wife to my amazing husband and raise our offspring to be 'mighty in the land'?

I can't

I live for the audience of one
I live for Him and Him alone
I only seek His approval

I hope to share more on this topic as it deepens in me but today I just wanted to show you something I've started to do...

I don't know about you but I spend many a (happy) hour in the kitchen, especially by the kitchen sink!! We don't have a dishwasher so everything is done by hand; which takes time. I am a big fan of multi-tasking so I came up with this. In front of my sink is a blank white tiled wall; I tied up some twine, wrote lots of inspiring quotes about motherhood and scriptures that I'm meditating on at the moment and pegged them on the line with pretty pegs!

Cute AND practical!!

My plan is to alternate the quotes and scriptures every couple of weeks and even peg up names of people I'm praying for or even photographs.

I'm now a happy, mediating, washing up Mama!!

Hope you like the idea, many blessing to you and your precious families today.

Blessings
Leah

Total Saturation - Tips and Tools for Discipling Children

2010-03-24T02:51:00.000-07:00

Evening Bible time with Daddy

I'm writing this post as a response to a number of emails and questions I have had over the past 6 months regarding what we 'do' and what we 'use' with regards to teaching and discipling our children in the Word.

I ask that you read this as if you have joined us on our journey, at the onset of an amazing adventure where we are just at the beginning, I don't speak as a mother who is particularly 'seasoned' but merely learning at the feet of Jesus, humbled by our responsibility as parents to our God given gifts.

We are where we are ultimately because of the awesome grace of God - he has taught, directed and realigned our thinking and life so much over the past 3 years that our family and home life does look very different Praise God!

I'll be straight with you from the beginning - we don't use much more in our home than THE BIBLE!! The Bible, the whole bible and nothing but the bible (well there a few other little 'helpers' we use...more about that later), not a kids bible, not a 'Veggie Tales' bible (sorry!!); just The Bible!

We as parents are given this instruction from Deuteronomy:

"These commandments that I give you today are to be upon your hearts. Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up." Deut 6:6-7

that's pretty much all the time right?

The Word of God is not only vital and pivotal in our parenting - it is VITAL; there is no parenting 'guru' or 'super nanny' who can direct us and shape the future of our children's lives like the Bible!

We need to saturate our children in HIS words at every given opportunity.

Proverbs tells us to "Train a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not turn from it."

and Paul gives Fathers this instruction in Ephesians:

"Fathers, do not exasperate your children; instead, bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord." Eph 6:4

Dave and I feel strongly that even from a young age we don't want to 'water down' the truth of the Gospel to our children, there really is no need to 'dumb down' the Word of God; children have soft, open hearts and really do understand more than you realise.

It may take time to adjust as a family but just reading a little bit a day then discussing it together is a precious and life shaping experience.

My husband is amazing at teaching the Bible to our children; I LOVE our family times together at the end of the day when he reads, asks questions, explains and then we pray together. My parents did this when I was a child and I remember those times fondly; they shaped and directed me in my walk with God.

So what do we do?

Well, as a home educating family we do have a bit more time and flexibility in our morning routine but I know Mothers who do this kind of thing before the school run etc.

As soon as I come downstairs and we're all milling around getting ready etc I switch on the computer and put on Daily Audio Bible, even if we only hear snippets I love waking up the day to the sound of the Word of God.

After we've had breakfast and I'm on my second cup of tea (!) we then pull out our Bible (in a year); in fact it's the exact same one as Ann Voskamp has photographed in her amazing blog post today; and this year I'm just reading through the psalms and proverbs. Next year I plan to read the whole of the new testament to the children. After we've read that, Nyah pulls out our character study for the day; at the moment we're using 'A Childs Book of Character Building' by Ron and Rebekah Coriell. It's a very simple but concise study to follow which Nyah can read aloud to us; we learn the definitions and discuss the stories every day. When we've finished our reading we pray together then tackle chores (which is character building in itself!!).

In the evenings after dinner is eaten and cleared away we all 'land' on the sofa with Dave (or most of the time on Dave!) where Dave reads the bible to us as a family; at the moment we're reading through the letters of John and loving it; sometimes we play worship songs or soaking music and we always pray before sending the children off to get ready for bed!

Of course as well as all this we are talking about life with Jesus when we sit at home and when we walk along the road, when we lie down and when we get up.

There are lots of amazing resources out there which can guide us in teaching our children the Word; one inspiring home educating family (with 14 children) have hoards of fantastic resources on www.thelearningparent.com to help and inspire parents in teaching and discipling their children; they have written lots of their own stuff as well as stocking other resources which they recommend. Watch out for comments on this post; I'm hoping Lucy will give a few recommendations that she has used recently.

Please feel free to comment and share any helpful resources you've come across to inspire us in discipling our children in our homes.

"May God be merciful and bless us. May his face smile with favour on us" Psalm 67:1

Blessings
Leah

P.S Okay, so after totally dissing 'children's bibles' (you've got to admit some of them are awful!!) I must say that we love this, Nyah is reading it on her own and can't stop talking about it!

Ripples of Life!

2010-03-23T06:13:00.001-07:00

"Let each generation tell its children of your mighty acts; let them proclaim your power."
Psalm 145:4

Everything we do or say makes a difference
Words have power
Actions go far
Attitudes bruise

The drip, drip, drip of rebellion in our hearts
The splosh of disrespect towards our husband
The plop of our irritable manner towards our children
...and the ripples begin

but wait

I see another pond; glistening in the sunlight - it's full of life, growth and colour
It's your home
It's your life
It's your legacy

Poured out from a generous mothers heart
Pebbles of love, hope, peace
Rocks of truth
Flooded with the water of The Word

Let the ripples begin
One generation to another
This is my great call
This is my mission
This is my joy

© Home Grown Babies 2009

Be refreshed in your home today as you sow into your children - creating ripples that will one day affect nations!

Blessings

"The generous will prosper; those who refresh others will themselves be refreshed."
Prov 11:25

HGB on Facebook - Join us!

2010-03-22T01:16:00.001-07:00

Nyah got herself into a tight spot at Kenilworth Castle!

Morning ladies! Just popping by in between stirring the porridge (I've ruined many a pan by wandering off so I won't be long!!) to say Home Grown Babies now has its own page on Facebook; if you're a FB user and would appreciate quicker access to updates and posts from this blog you can join us here!

Also, if you're not following her already Joy at 'The Stay at Home Missionary' has a great blog here and she also has a FB page which you can link to on her blog - at the moment Joy is doing a series for Mothers on having a 'practical vision' - go check it out, it's great stuff!

Right, better go before Micah empties the plastics cupboard of ALL its contents!

Many Monday blessings - have a great day
Leah

The Truth about Women!

2010-03-20T13:57:00.000-07:00

"For we are God’s masterpiece. He has created us anew in Christ Jesus, so we can do the good things he planned for us long ago."
Eph 2:10

This scripture from Ephesians is branded on my heart and mind at the moment; I've been meditating on it in the light womanhood and how this is reflected in our role as wives and mothers.

The world around us is so full of insecure, uncertain women; lost in the crowded society pulling them this way and that way; deafened by the sound of voices telling them who they should be, what they should look like and how they should live their lives.

The Word of God is our plumb line for life, it's where the bar is raised in the face of culture; where our fears are contested and blown out of the water, where our insecurities pale in the light of a Father who holds us close, not just words on a page but a life lived, a life sacrificed in order that we no longer have to live uncertain and insecure. A life sacrificed for our freedom!

Yet we walk blinded by the world
Deafened by the lies

Who are we listening to?

The Casting Crowns song 'The Voice of Truth' speaks so clearly of the amazing power of other 'voices' in our lives; yet it is the voice of TRUTH that must prevail:

"But the Voice of truth tells me a different story the Voice of truth says "do not be afraid!" and the Voice of truth says "this is for My glory" Out of all the voices calling out to me I will choose to listen and believe the Voice of truth"

I'm always so amazed at the beauty of a secure woman; so comfortable to be around, so quick to encourage, so ready to serve, so willing to sacrifice and walk confidently in who God has made her to be.

Is that you? Is that me?
Who's voice are we listening to?

Ladies let's not perpetuate the worlds window on women who get their ideas of 'self' from the most recent 'OK' magazine or listening to TV 'experts'; we don't need a motivational speaker to tell us 'who we are' or a celebrity to tell us who we're not - we need the way, the truth and the life; Jesus!

We ARE Gods masterpiece!

So in case you may have forgotten WHO you are in Christ; here's a little reminder (read it aloud!)...

I am born again…through the living and enduring word of God. (1 Peter 1:23)
I am a child of God. (John 1:12)
I am saved by grace through faith. (Ephesians 2:8-9)
I am loved by God and He gave his one and only Son for me. (John 3:16)
I am a new creation in Christ; the old has gone and the new has come! (2 Corinthians 5:17)
I have peace with God. (Romans 5:1)
The Holy Spirit lives in me. (1 Corinthians 3:16)
I have access to God's wisdom. (James 1:5)
I am helped by God. (Hebrews 4:16)
I am reconciled to God. (Romans 5:11)
I am not condemned by God. (Romans 8:1)
I am justified. (Romans 5:1)
I have Christ's righteousness. (Romans 5:19; 2 Corinthians 5:21)
I am Christ's ambassador. (2 Corinthians 5:20)
I am completely forgiven. (Colossians 1:14)
I am tenderly loved by God. (Jeremiah 31:3)
I am the sweet fragrance of Christ to God. (2 Corinthians 2:15)
I am a temple in which God dwells. (1 Corinthians 3:16)
I am blameless and beyond reproach. (Colossians 1:22)
I am the salt of the earth. (Matthew 5:13)
I am the light of the world. (Matthew 5:14)
I am a branch on Christ's vine. (John 15:1,5)
I am Christ's friend. (John 15:5)
I am chosen by Christ to bear fruit. (John 15:16)
I am a joint heir with Christ, sharing His inheritance with Him. (Romans 8:17)
I am united to the Lord, one spirit with Him. (1 Corinthians 6:17)
I am a member of Christ's body. (1 Corinthians 12:27)
I am a saint. (Ephesians 1:1)
I am hidden with Christ in God. (Colossians 3:3)
I am chosen by God, holy and dearly loved. (Colossians 3:12)
I am a child of the light. (1 Thessalonians 5:5)
I am holy, and I share in God's heavenly calling. (Hebrews 3:1)
I am sanctified. (Hebrews 2:11)
I am one of God's living stones, being built up in Christ as a spiritual house. (1 Peter 2:5)
I am a member of a chosen race, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, a people for God's own possession and created to sing His praises. (1 Peter 2:9-10)
I am firmly rooted and built up in Christ. (Colossians 2:7)
I am born of God, and the evil one cannot touch me. (1 John 5:18)
I have the mind of Christ. (1 Corinthians 2:16)
I may approach God with boldness, freedom, and confidence. (Ephesians 3:12)
I have been rescued from Satan's domain and transferred into the kingdom of Christ. (Colossians 1:13)
I have been made complete in Christ. (Colossians 2:10)
I have been given a spirit of power, love, and self-discipline. (2 Timothy 1:7)
I have been given great and precious promises by God. (2 Peter 1:4)
My needs are met by God. (Philippians 4:19)
I am a prince (princess) in God's kingdom. (John 1:12; 1 Timothy 6:15)
I have been bought with a price, and I belong to God. (1 Corinthians 6:19,20)
I have been adopted as God's child. (Ephesians 1:5)
I have direct access to God through the Holy Spirit. (Ephesians 2:18)
I am assured that all things are working together for good. (Romans 8:28)
I am free from any condemning charges against me. (Romans 8:31f)
I cannot be separated from the love of God. (Romans 8:35f)
I have been established, anointed, and sealed by God. (2 Corinthians 1:21,22)
I am confident that the good work that God has begun in me will be perfected. (Philippians 1:6)
I am a citizen of heaven. (Philippians 3:20)
I am a personal witness of Christ's. (Acts 1:8)
I am God's coworker. (2 Corinthians 6:1, 1 Corinthians 3:9)
I am seated with Christ in the heavenly realm. (Ephesians 2:6)
I am God's workmanship. (Ephesians 2:10)
I can do all things through Christ, who gives me the strength I need. (Philippians 4:13)

Praise God for His Word; it is a lamp to our path and a light to our feet; thank you God that you guide our every step.

Many blessings from our home to yours!
Leah

* Photos - images from our home this week

A Seed of Change

2010-03-16T06:10:00.000-07:00

Spring is in the air; flowers are bringing colour to the dull winter remains, the sun is shining and it's time for planting! It's amazing how much bigger my home feels when we have the garden to play in.

When the weather starts to warm up we generally throw open the windows and the back door to our yard and in between book work and reading the children can run around outside, kick a ball, play in the dirt and whatever else children do!

I am completely a fair weather gardener (as I'm sure many of us are) but my enthusiasm generally lasts March through to September so I have a good run of it! Today we have started our planting projects; mostly in pots as we don't have bed space anymore. We planted peas, carrots, sunflowers, Asiatic Lilies...and then we ran out of compost! We mainly grow small crops of veggies for educational purposes for the children rather than to 'save money' etc. I don't think we've ever produced enough for more than a couple of meals but it is GREAT for the kids to plant, grow and eat a variety of vegetables.

We'll be completing a garden journal as part of our spring/summer outdoor science which also includes looking at weather and cloud formations etc.

As I was planting this morning I began thinking about growth and change. We are so often desperate for change in so many areas of our life but we're not prepared to put in the work or see the process through till the end. Seeds take time to germinate, sprout and produce fruit but the life is there from the beginning - we just have to water, cultivate and wait.

Waiting is a hard process; whether we're waiting for a financial breakthrough, a health miracle, a baby or to break a long-term habit in our life we have to be prepared to trust and wait.

"You can make many plans, but the Lord's purpose will prevail."
Prov 19:21

Is there a seed of change in your life today? Are you impatiently trying to make something happen on your own?

"Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight." Prov 3:5-6

Evening Bible time with Daddy

The Lord is faithful to produce in us the amazing things He has planned for us, in His perfect timing:

"For we are God’s masterpiece. He has created us anew in Christ Jesus, so we can do the good things he planned for us long ago".
Eph 2:10

So remember today ladies and be encouraged; YOU are Gods masterpiece and God has plans for YOU; perfect and pleasing plans that you are patiently waiting to walk in; as you trust in your heavenly Father and acknowledge Him in ALL your ways, lift up your head and see the beautiful path He lays out before your feet - trust and wait!

May you be blessed in your home and all you do today,

Leah

"Don’t copy the behavior and customs of this world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think. Then you will learn to know God’s will for you, which is good and pleasing and perfect." Rom 12:2

Born of Love

2010-03-14T13:30:00.000-07:00

Just wanted to share this beautiful poem my husband Dave wrote to put in the baby's memory box:

"Born of Love
Confirmed by a test,
two lines were drawn for us,
faint and blue on the edge of white

Two lines so clear, so promisingly bright,
suddenly, deeply, disappear
Leaving nothing but a pregnant pause
A line of time until the next rain falls

Like an unfinished portrait
So quickly washed away,
Like a memory yet to be birthed
or an unsung songbird
Never bound to fly in these heavens skies

And in this moment
Born of love
Confirmed by this test of tests
Two lines we know will never fade
One is marked on my heart
One is burned on yours
Both are linked - unbilically, eternally

To a friend we have yet to meet
To a promise yet fulfilled
And a song we will one day hear
Together"

We're doing well and have had a lovely weekend as a family together; today is Mothers day here in the UK so I was handed some perfect hand made cards along with lots of snuggles and a bag of goodies as I barely opened my eyes this morning; I am blessed!

Thank you so much for all your precious comments and emails; we have felt the huge embrace of friends and family from all over the world through prayer and kindness.

May you know God's amazing blessing in your homes this week
Leah

A Treasure for Heaven

2010-03-11T12:51:00.001-08:00

"Weeping may last through the night, but joy comes with the morning"
Psalm 30:5

This week we sadly miscarried a baby.

According to my dates I had been pregnant for 11, almost 12 weeks but it seems that our little one stopped growing from a much earlier stage but was held in my body for longer.

Our family has know great peace as we've walked this through; I thank God for showing us life through His eyes, giving us an eternal perspective and we rest in the knowledge that our little one is safe in His arms.

Even though I won't get to hold this much anticipated baby in my arms, as my wonderful friend wrote and reminded me today, I am privileged and honoured that our Heavenly Father chose me to carry this baby into eternity...a true warrior for His army.

I've cried many tears these past few days; it's amazing how distracted you can feel by the busyness of life and people looking out for you...then it hits me; some times at 3am, sometimes straight after watching a movie, sometimes just as I lay my head down to sleep; in the quiet.

We've been overwhelmed by the love, words and prayers of those around us - reaching out to us emotionally and practically; we thank God for each text, email and phone call; each knock on the door, bunch of flowers and we greatly appreciated the hot meal brought to the door on Tuesday night. We are blessed!

My precious Mum came down from Yorkshire for a couple of days to be by my side as soon as she heard; she's cleaned, washed dishes, held the baby, read to the children, made cups of tea and has been great company - Love you Mum!

I have been processing so many thoughts over the past few days that I hope to share with you in time but for now I'll leave you with this wonderful poem from the Above Rubies web site but that was also sent to me by Chrys:

MISCARRIAGE

Little baby fastened in my womb

Partaker of my life

Though hidden from my view

Changer of my course

Expander of my waist

Enlarger

And developer of my faith.

Oh little one who rented out my room

I never thought our lives would be

Untied so soon.

You left in sudden haste

And emptied out my small domain.

Child of ours,

What is your name?

For though I've longed to carry you once more

You've already been perfected

In the presence of the Lord

So my goal for you is gained

In a place of great delight

And soon in glory

We will

Re-unite.

Written by Janet Carlton,

Emily, Minnesota, USA.

Blessings
Leah

Spring!

2010-03-04T04:46:00.000-08:00

"For everything there is a season, a time for every activity under heaven"
Ecclesiastes 3:1

All is well here in our little corner of the world - enjoying the beautiful change of season and getting outside when we can to feel the fresh spring air blowing on our faces.

Just thought I'd share this beautiful piece of music that I've playing to the children - today would be Vivaldi's 332nd birthday! Happy Birthday Vivaldi!

We're about to head out to the woods with our homemade flapjack and camera to spot some signs of spring; I'll be back soon with a family update, home school adventures and hopefully lots of photos.

Trust all is well in your home

Blessings
Leah

Giving it to God

2010-03-02T07:09:00.000-08:00

“I have held many things in my hands, and I have lost them all; but whatever I have placed in God's hands, that I still possess”
Martin Luther

Battle training

2010-02-26T00:00:00.000-08:00

Three little blessings enjoying a book
together...and one of our guinea pigs!

"You are as much serving God in looking after your own children,
and training them up in God's fear,
and minding the house,
and making your household a church for God,

as you would be if you had been called
to lead an army to battle
for the Lord of hosts."

~Charles Spurgeon

Blessings
Leah

Won't Relent!

2010-02-24T02:01:00.000-08:00

Misty Edwards - 'You won't relent'

Chores for Children: help or hindrance?

2010-02-17T23:51:00.000-08:00

As ever I don't claim to be an expert in this area but I'm merely sharing a part of our journey in the area of chores and children getting involved in the life and working day of the home; I have SO much to learn myself in 'keeping home' and am grateful for the grace and help of my husband and children as I learn my lessons!

Work is very much a part of life and I don't think there is ever a 'too young' to start learning about responsibility and being given a small job to do regularly around the house. I refuse to raise a household of lazy and selfish individuals that have no sense of responsibility; therefore Dave and I realise WE have to put the work into our children everyday! Children don't learn these lessons at school, from television or even watching you 'slave away' under their feet; they learn this lesson from YOU, in the home, getting their own little hands dirty!

Some things we're finding important

The children need to see Dave and I (especially me in the day) enjoying our work, I need to be singing while I sweep the floor, chatting happily while I wash the dishes, not grumbling while I fold another huge pile of laundry (need to work on this one!!) - work is such a big part of life, it has to be full of joy and peace; this not only sets a great example for our children but also builds security in them that Mama LOVES being at home and bringing glory to God through all she does!

Build on character issues along side giving them responsibilities. At least four times a week as part of our daily devotions we work through certain character traits; so far this year we've studied the areas of faith, being attentive, creativity, diligence and patience - and I get to remind the children about these everyday...especially when they 'slip'!!

Start off with jobs you know they can manage and be consistent with then build on them over a few months.

Train them in the area of work that you've given them, don't expect the bathroom to be sparkling and clean if all you've told them is 'clean the bathroom', spend time showing them what to do and explain the outcome that you'd like to see!

Our children don't get an 'allowance' yet and we don't 'reward' them for every job they do; we don't want to train our children that you only work to get a reward (because as we all know that isn't always the case!) but we do regularly review their weeks work, encourage them LOTS and bless them with treats and special outings to say thank you and 'well done'...but they never know when that is going to happen, it's always a surprise!

Joel tackling the dishes

Nyah making the salad

Micah taking the cutlery to the table and trying to set it out!

It's not always easy, they don't always 'feel' like it and like to express that (as we all do from time to time!) but we've made it a consistent part of their daily routine, we have breakfast, read and pray together, do a short review on work and attitudes from the day before then set them to work!

A big thing to tackle early on is grumbling; a scripture we taught the children and regularly quote in our house is Phil 2, v 14 - 16:

"Do everything without complaining or arguing, so that you may become blameless and pure, children of God without fault in a crooked and depraved generation, in which you shine like stars in the universe as you hold out the word of life—in order that I may boast on the day of Christ that I did not run or labor for nothing."
Phil 2: 14 - 16

What do we do?

Here's a brief run down of what the children are involved with at the moment:

Nyah and Joel take it in turns every day to be my 'kitchen helper'; this can mean chopping, stirring, mixing, setting the table, filling the water jug etc. It's a great way to get time with them at the end of the day and teach them about cooking, nutrition, recycling, composting etc. We have great fun and they LOVE telling Daddy that they made the salad or the bread!

They are responsible for their rooms although I do help them keep on top of things if needs be; they have to do a 10 minute 'pick up' every morning, make bed, open curtains etc.

They are all (even Micah if he can carry things) responsible for clearing the table after every meal, scraping plates and stacking ready for the washing up to be done.

Micah gets involved with lots around the house and is the first to go to the kitchen to get the dustpan and brush if something gets spilt, he clears up after himself and is very handy with a mop...very cute!

Every morning:

Joel: feeds fish and guinea pigs, brings in the milk from front door and tidies and sweeps the hall way

Nyah: switches laundry from washer to dryer, takes dry clothes up stairs ready to sort, wipes down bathroom and picks up any towels, stray toothbrushes etc.

They are also on hand to do regular 'pick ups' throughout our day and are a whizz at folding laundry!

I've heard many mothers comment how it's much 'easier' and quicker to do it themselves and yes I have to agree that sometimes it is but that isn't sowing into or training my children for adulthood or shared life in any way at all. Training our children is hard work and is a sacrifice, but for every time the guinea pig food is spilt all over the kitchen floor and I act patiently and graciously towards my son (and show him how to avoid doing it again) I am producing and sowing into a man of God, a future father and husband that will bring glory to God!

Soli Deo Gloria!

Trust you're having a blessed week - thanks for popping by!

Blessings
Leah

History at our finger tips!

2010-02-09T14:07:00.000-08:00

"...with its baby rivers and little towns, each with its abbey or its cathedral; with voices - one voice perhaps, echoing through the transept - the criterion of suitability and convenience."
Marianne Moore
'England'

I love history; not merely the 'subject' but the concept and the notion of being who we are and living like we do is because of what has gone before us. I have a huge appreciation for what has gone before us and don't believe we can intelligently move forward unless we have a grasp on this.

I love bible history, church history, British history and even my own history - my journey; where I have come from and how it has made me who I am today!

I want to instill in my children that same appreciation and excitement for history; not just the time lines, kings and queen, eras in time; but I also want them to understand their place in history - that they are born to be history makers!

Nyah learning at our local museum and art gallery

We live in a great country packed with history; there are so many places to visit and learn from right on our door step. The beauty of home education is that you can GO whenever you wish, go and explore your country and learn hands on, first hand what the walls of the castle felt like, how wide the doors were, how vast the banqueting halls were etc.

We are presently enjoying a project on castles; we've drawn them, labeled them, read about them and last week it was time to go and visit a castle and actually stand on the walls and explore for ourselves!

Many of these photos are pictures of the remains of Kenilworth Castle in Warwickshire; the castle is famous for it's visit by Queen Elizabeth I in 1575; you can read more about it here.

We also visited Coventry Cathedral ruins; here are some moments and sights captured in our 'out and about' history week!

Fun with friends

Joel enjoying an interactive activity at the museum

And in case you wondered where Micah was in all this...

He woke up just as we got to the museum - here he is holding a George and the Dragon 'dragon' puppet and looking totally confused as to where he is, he looked like this for at least 20 minutes!

...and because we can't resist a baby wearing pic - here he is all tucked up for ride on Mama's back in our 'Pod'

So, in the spirit of being English, I'll leave you with this great quote I came across - rings very true in my heart!! ;)

"The British have an umbilical cord which has never been cut and through which tea flows constantly. It is curious to watch them in times of sudden horror, tragedy or disaster. The pulse stops apparently, and nothing can be done, and no move made, until "a nice cup of tea" is quickly made. There is no question that it brings solace and does steady the mind. What a pity all countries are not so tea-conscious. World-peace conferences would run more smoothly if "a nice cup of tea", or indeed, a samovar were available at the proper time."
Marlene Dietrich

Blessings
Leah

Colour Boxes for Toddlers

2010-02-04T01:55:00.001-08:00

Babies show a fascination in colour from an early age; we're told to have bold primary colours around our growing little ones to stimulate their hungry minds.

One of the earliest things I like to do with my young toddlers is teach them and inspire them with colours, throughout the years I've used different things but I've tried something different for Micah; 'colour boxes'. Obviously the easiest way to teach a child about colour is through conversation and life around you but I'm also always looking for interesting and stimulating things for Micah to do while I'm teaching the older children; this is one idea I've implemented recently.

My colour boxes are simply 4 or five largish tubs with lids on filled with items and objects of one colour; items of different textures and fabrics so they are stimulating to hold as well as look at. At the moment we have a red, yellow, green and blue box but I generally only get one or two out at a time. I literally go round every room in the house looking for red 'stuff' for instance and fill it up!!

Alongside the boxes I use the 'Counting Colours' book by Rodger Priddy to look at and talk about while we play with contents of the box. At this stage (18 months) Micah just plays with items and puts them in and out of the box, when we play with him we go through the items and say 'blue ball', 'blue brick' etc. As he gets older and gets more familiar with the colours you could use all the boxes in one go and pull out various different colour items, then ask him to put the 'blue ball' in the correct box...you get the idea!

Here's Micah about to start work on his blue box...after sorting out the leg of his jeans of course!

Hope you enjoy this idea; let me know what you do to help your little ones learn about colour.

Blessings
Leah

My Longing

2010-02-02T13:20:00.001-08:00

'Quiet reading time before lunch!

Well we seem to be recovering from some virus in our little corner of the world; Micah was his usual chatty self tonight and amazingly ate dinner; Dave is still resting but feeling better and ready to get up and go tomorrow. Praise God the remaining three family members remain unshaken; we're staying healthy and hoping life will resume as normal tomorrow!

Gingerbread Maths!

School has been a little slower, as has everything to accommodate Mama being nurse as well as teacher but we've had fun learning at home. I've tried as much as possible to stick to some kind of routine which helps N & J keep motivated and focused.

This weeks character study is on being 'diligent' so we've all had lots of opportunity to put that into practice!

In our bible reading this morning we read Psalm 27; one of my favourites! I was challenged by the cry of Davids heart; 'the thing I seek the most' was to be in the presence of God.

Is this the cry of our heart? More than 'things' more than popularity, more than success, more than being the best wife, the best Mum, the best...

My primary concern should be to be pleasing to Gods heart, to sit at His feet, to long for His presence, to think about Him, to linger where He is - in everything I do.

His heart
His presence
His approval

"One thing I ask of the LORD,
this is what I seek:
that I may dwell in the house of the LORD
all the days of my life,
to gaze upon the beauty of the LORD
and to seek him in his temple."
Psalm 27:4

May this be the cry of our hearts this week!

Gingerbread treats for Grandma!

Joel (5) is eager to learn about electronics; Dave has started to let him pull a few things apart so he can learn and explore for himself...this is him in his PJ's before breakfast making a start on some kind of broken light fixture!!

I trust you're having a great week and enjoying Gods love and faithfulness in your lives.

Blessings
Leah